Vale_Abel wrote:The foe button not only is disrespectful to the person foed but the entire cc rt community. Games sit forever and at times are abandoned because one of the joined player has a large foe list so others can't join - it punishes everyone.
The only serious enough reason to foe somebody is because they foed you. I pay for the service and letting a random player decide weather I receive that service or not based on their emotional state at the time is not only unfair and unjust but quite possibly illegal. Let them grow a set like riskllama likes to say.
Vale_Abel wrote:Dukasaur wrote:Vale_Abel wrote:The foe button not only is disrespectful to the person foed but the entire cc rt community. Games sit forever and at times are abandoned because one of the joined player has a large foe list so others can't join - it punishes everyone.
The only serious enough reason to foe somebody is because they foed you. I pay for the service and letting a random player decide weather I receive that service or not based on their emotional state at the time is not only unfair and unjust but quite possibly illegal. Let them grow a set like riskllama likes to say.
There are 3,866 waiting games on the site. I find it very difficult to believe that you can't find a game in which nobody has you foed.
As an alternative, you can play exclusively tournament games. Tournament invites ignore the foe function.
I'm talking about RT games - And the suggestion that I be happy with tournament invites only and not being allowed to make use of the RT function after paying for it is ludicrous and demeaning.That is the exact form of bullying that the foe button reinforces and promotes - What am I paying for if I can't play RT games?
People who use the foe feature also pay, and do so to be able to enjoy the games they play here. If there are players who I dont want to play against, because they are rude, abusive, poor play, deadbeat, or other reasons that make the game less enjoyable, then those players are equally able to make it so they dont have to play with those people. So paying for the service really isn't a reason for anything becuase they also are paying for a service (which includes the foe feature). The reason you gave I dont think I've EVER used the foe feature for that reason. So clearly, there are more reasons to use it (whether or not you agree with that is something entirely different).
You talk about disrespect, but a lot of the people who get foed I'm sure have shown some sort of disrespect in order to find themselves placed there. It raises the enjoyment of the game for many by removing the potential of having to play vs those who make the site less enjoyable. If you couldn't foe someone, they could literally just "stalk" you on your games list and continually join game after game after game making it completely miserable for the person, and why would they stay? why would they continue to pay for a site that doesn't allow them to remove problem people? Some people, just dont get along. They both could be great people individually, but just not get along well.
I completely disagree that its bullying, disrespectful, or demeaning in anyway. If you find yourself on many foe lists, you may want to do some internal soul searching and find out why.