Have you had a boss/co-worker you couldn't get along with?

salvadevinemasse · Post by **salvadevinemasse** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:39 pm

Have you ever had a boss/ co-worker you couldn't get along with or stand no matter how hard you've tried?

See I have a co-worker right now and shes had me crying the past 2 weeks. I'm about ready to tell her where to take her attitude and this job. I dont mind working hard, or working late.. If its what I have to do to afford my car, phone ect, then I'll do it.. However how many times can you cry from one person before you tell them to go take a hike?

I got yelled at 7 times today... 4 from work, 2 from my mom being mad about my job and how they treat me and not understanding why I haven't quit yet, and 1 from online.

sad thing is 3 of the times I got yelled at I was only doing what my boss told me to.. Letting one of the massage therapists know that she could go home after she did 1 last massage.. Easy you'd think right?

After that I got yelled at by 1 boss, and 2 co-workers over it.. Although the boss and 1 co-worker apologized when they realized I just did what the chiropractor told me to do. The LMT that I was just letting know though that she could go home was the one that didn't apologize to me and when I apologized to her even though I had no reason to she walked past me said what ever and bad talked me in front of a patient.

I swear I love most people, but shes made me cry so much more then even my toughest boss. When we tell her to do something she pulls the token black card to boot.. I use to get along with her and sometimes we still do but I swear lately I've been crying over how she treats me more and more.

She leaves me to clean every thing up for morning we were an hour late today because another lady from work wouldn't stop talking to the patients and I'm most likely going to get blamed even though I wasn't even close to blame. I'm so out of fighting fuel its not even funny these days..I'm so close to being cried out..I think I'm going to go back to school for something else.. I thought I'd love massage and most the time I do, I just HATE working for the chiropractors around here.. they turn into pervs (hether. not the current guy I work for.) or really nice guys who dont have all the information and trusts the ones who come to him first which I'm sure the other lady will blame me..she did last time when it wasn't my fault... another of her talking alot to patients..Ugh! *screams and then passes out from being so tired of crying*

misterman10 · Post by **misterman10** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:40 pm

never had a real job

salvadevinemasse · Post by **salvadevinemasse** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:42 pm

misterman10 wrote:never had a real job

your not missing much.. I mostly love work but when they make you break down at work on/off crying its time to consider options

misterman10 · Post by **misterman10** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:43 pm

salvadevinemasse wrote:
misterman10 wrote:never had a real job

your not missing much.. I mostly love work but when they make you break down at work on/off crying its time to consider options

sorry about all the issues with work, if it makes you feel better, school sucks (I'm only a sophomore in High School)

muy_thaiguy · Post by **muy_thaiguy** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:44 pm

Tell your co-worker to take a hike.

I've had co-workers that caused others to quit, and superviser's/bosses that got me to quit.

salvadevinemasse · Post by **salvadevinemasse** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:46 pm

muy_thaiguy wrote:Tell your co-worker to take a hike.

I've had co-workers that caused others to quit, and superviser's/bosses that got me to quit.

Its why i've been freaking out the past couple days.. I've been having a hard time with work and then kat being around me in any way/shape/form just gets me going more.. I'm just going crazy lately and been really emotional. Between her and work they both get me crying on/off

muy_thaiguy · Post by **muy_thaiguy** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:48 pm

salvadevinemasse wrote:
muy_thaiguy wrote:Tell your co-worker to take a hike.

I've had co-workers that caused others to quit, and superviser's/bosses that got me to quit.

Its why i've been freaking out the past couple days.. I've been having a hard time with work and then kat being around me in any way/shape/form just gets me going more.. I'm just going crazy lately and been really emotional. Between her and work they both get me crying on/off

Then I suggest you take some time off from it at the least. Or talk to your boss about it this and see what you can do. By the way, I can't see your avatar.

misterman10 · Post by **misterman10** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:49 pm

muy_thaiguy wrote:
salvadevinemasse wrote:
muy_thaiguy wrote:Tell your co-worker to take a hike.

I've had co-workers that caused others to quit, and superviser's/bosses that got me to quit.

Its why i've been freaking out the past couple days.. I've been having a hard time with work and then kat being around me in any way/shape/form just gets me going more.. I'm just going crazy lately and been really emotional. Between her and work they both get me crying on/off
Then I suggest you take some time off from it at the least. Or talk to your boss about it this and see what you can do. By the way, I can't see your avatar.

he doesnt have one
2996

salvadevinemasse · Post by **salvadevinemasse** » Wed Aug 22, 2007 11:52 pm

muy_thaiguy wrote:
salvadevinemasse wrote:
muy_thaiguy wrote:Tell your co-worker to take a hike.

I've had co-workers that caused others to quit, and superviser's/bosses that got me to quit.

Its why i've been freaking out the past couple days.. I've been having a hard time with work and then kat being around me in any way/shape/form just gets me going more.. I'm just going crazy lately and been really emotional. Between her and work they both get me crying on/off
Then I suggest you take some time off from it at the least. Or talk to your boss about it this and see what you can do. By the way, I can't see your avatar.

I dont have one I use to have a sherlock holmes one but i lost it and then had another up and i havent had one for umm...how long now? lol.. (Okay, I got one now! ) A while at least because I was gone for a while due to personal "kat" issues

I cant take any time off..I just had vacation.. I get the 31st off thats about it.. One of these days I'm just gonna snap and say something mean if she keeps making me cry. I know that much because people have done it to me before. (And yes I have snapped and said mean things in the past and in return made them cry too)

salvadevinemasse · Post by **salvadevinemasse** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 12:00 am

misterman10 wrote:
muy_thaiguy wrote:
salvadevinemasse wrote:
muy_thaiguy wrote:Tell your co-worker to take a hike.

I've had co-workers that caused others to quit, and superviser's/bosses that got me to quit.

Its why i've been freaking out the past couple days.. I've been having a hard time with work and then kat being around me in any way/shape/form just gets me going more.. I'm just going crazy lately and been really emotional. Between her and work they both get me crying on/off
Then I suggest you take some time off from it at the least. Or talk to your boss about it this and see what you can do. By the way, I can't see your avatar.

he doesnt have one
2996

I have one now...and its soooooo cute! Dont you agree? (I'm a girl btw) Dont worry though i know alot of people dont realize it.. I'm VTMariks girlfriend if that helps you any

The Gunslinger · Post by **The Gunslinger** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 12:06 am

yup....i work at a fast food place. and it just opened about 2 months ago. but yea it was the first sonic drive through in the city so it was crazy. and a bunch of us high school kids with 2 hours of training on something new doesnt work to well when you get order after order after order. but one kid was just perfect at everything. he was the owners little angel. i hated him so much. he would criticize everyone one and everything. if you didnt wash your hands right he went and bitched to the owner, if you didnt have your hat on right he went and bitched to the owner. i hate him so much.

salvadevinemasse · Post by **salvadevinemasse** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 12:19 am

The Gunslinger wrote:yup....i work at a fast food place. and it just opened about 2 months ago. but yea it was the first sonic drive through in the city so it was crazy. and a bunch of us high school kids with 2 hours of training on something new doesnt work to well when you get order after order after order. but one kid was just perfect at everything. he was the owners little angel. i hated him so much. he would criticize everyone one and everything. if you didnt wash your hands right he went and bitched to the owner, if you didnt have your hat on right he went and bitched to the owner. i hate him so much.

Yeah theres a girl at work.. Brandy.. She bad talks the Doc alot and the Doc loves her Hes only bitched at her like 1 time that I can remember. It drives me crazy I leave the room if she bad talks him..he actually caught her doing it once and he just pulled her aside told her to get her stuff in order and then what did he do? He Promoted her!!! Damn... Maybe thats the key? lol

muy_thaiguy · Post by **muy_thaiguy** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 12:26 am

salvadevinemasse wrote:
misterman10 wrote:
muy_thaiguy wrote:
salvadevinemasse wrote:
muy_thaiguy wrote:Tell your co-worker to take a hike.

I've had co-workers that caused others to quit, and superviser's/bosses that got me to quit.

Its why i've been freaking out the past couple days.. I've been having a hard time with work and then kat being around me in any way/shape/form just gets me going more.. I'm just going crazy lately and been really emotional. Between her and work they both get me crying on/off
Then I suggest you take some time off from it at the least. Or talk to your boss about it this and see what you can do. By the way, I can't see your avatar.

he doesnt have one
2996

I have one now...and its soooooo cute! Dont you agree? (I'm a girl btw) Dont worry though i know alot of people dont realize it.. I'm VTMariks girlfriend if that helps you any

Now that I didn't know. By the way, there is always going to be the little suck up or "teacher's pet" if you will. Just a different person at each place.

salvadevinemasse · Post by **salvadevinemasse** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 12:30 am

I know.. I just hate the ones who make you cry.. I didnt have that my last job..I complained but I never cried

cawck mongler · Post by **cawck mongler** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 1:04 am

Didn't like one of my managers when I worked at McDonalds, luckily I usually didn't have shifts with her, but then one day I checked my schedule and I was supposed to be on with her for all my shifts for the next week. Quit the next day:)

salvadevinemasse · Post by **salvadevinemasse** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 1:08 am

cawck mongler wrote:Didn't like one of my managers when I worked at McDonalds, luckily I usually didn't have shifts with her, but then one day I checked my schedule and I was supposed to be on with her for all my shifts for the next week. Quit the next day:)

LOL! I love that story. I see her 3 times a week sometimes 4 I get snapped at by her over 60% of the time

cawck mongler · Post by **cawck mongler** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 1:13 am

Your only option is to quit and become an anti-American Nazi that plays risk.

salvadevinemasse · Post by **salvadevinemasse** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 1:21 am

cawck mongler wrote:Your only option is to quit and become an anti-American Nazi that plays risk.

Can you make a living doing that?

Anarchy Ninja · Post by **Anarchy Ninja** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 1:24 am

salvadevinemasse wrote:
cawck mongler wrote:Your only option is to quit and become an anti-American Nazi that plays risk.

Can you make a living doing that?

Probably not but it would be a hell of alot more fun

salvadevinemasse · Post by **salvadevinemasse** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 1:33 am

Anarchy Ninja wrote:
salvadevinemasse wrote:
cawck mongler wrote:Your only option is to quit and become an anti-American Nazi that plays risk.

Can you make a living doing that?

Probably not but it would be a hell of alot more fun

hell yeah it would be...could stay and chat all day/night long while playing risk and be making over time!

Skittles! · Post by **Skittles!** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 1:46 am

Did you ever think that maybe you were just taking it too personally. Everyone has the people that get on their nerves, that bug them, that make them do extra work. Its going to be there all your life, no matter what job you work, what school you go to, what classes you take ect. So just get the f*ck over it, grit your teeth and do it. Or quit. If its so bad that you cry everyday, either get over it or quit. Its really not that hard Salva. You just seem to take everything way too personally. You attacked Kitten via IM, then got mad when she didn't just act all sorry and caring, then you come on here to whine about it, and now you're whining about work. You just take everything too personally. Contrary to your belief, the world does not revolve around you

got tonkaed · Post by **got tonkaed** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 1:54 am

Skittles! wrote:Did you ever think that maybe you were just taking it too personally. Everyone has the people that get on their nerves, that bug them, that make them do extra work. Its going to be there all your life, no matter what job you work, what school you go to, what classes you take ect. So just get the f*ck over it, grit your teeth and do it. Or quit. If its so bad that you cry everyday, either get over it or quit. Its really not that hard Salva. You just seem to take everything way too personally. You attacked Kitten via IM, then got mad when she didn't just act all sorry and caring, then you come on here to whine about it, and now you're whining about work. You just take everything too personally. Contrary to your belief, the world does not revolve around you

although i havent read every single post...this probably constitutes the burn of the day/week.

Minister Masket · Post by **Minister Masket** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 3:52 am

Skittles! wrote:Did you ever think that maybe you were just taking it too personally. Everyone has the people that get on their nerves, that bug them, that make them do extra work. Its going to be there all your life, no matter what job you work, what school you go to, what classes you take ect. So just get the f*ck over it, grit your teeth and do it. Or quit. If its so bad that you cry everyday, either get over it or quit. Its really not that hard Salva. You just seem to take everything way too personally. You attacked Kitten via IM, then got mad when she didn't just act all sorry and caring, then you come on here to whine about it, and now you're whining about work. You just take everything too personally. Contrary to your belief, the world does not revolve around you

That t'was unusually harsh for you Skittles! Taking things a little too personally methinks...

The Kat issue has been dealt with, so DEAL WITH IT! :wink:

Iliad · Post by **Iliad** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 3:54 am

Skittles! wrote:Did you ever think that maybe you were just taking it too personally. Everyone has the people that get on their nerves, that bug them, that make them do extra work. Its going to be there all your life, no matter what job you work, what school you go to, what classes you take ect. So just get the f*ck over it, grit your teeth and do it. Or quit. If its so bad that you cry everyday, either get over it or quit. Its really not that hard Salva. You just seem to take everything way too personally. You attacked Kitten via IM, then got mad when she didn't just act all sorry and caring, then you come on here to whine about it, and now you're whining about work. You just take everything too personally. Contrary to your belief, the world does not revolve around you

finally someone who agrees with me

static_ice · Post by **static_ice** » Thu Aug 23, 2007 8:35 am

sounds like my mom :roll:

anyway does hardass teacher count? she didn't yell but she gave us all hours of homework (Honors English 2 btw) during that term I spent 3 all-nighters and when I did sleep it was an average of 5 hours...

my solution? ever since I've had average english, I took only 1 more advanced math class and now the only AP class I take is art

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