For the record, I do consider abortion the ending of a human life, and the morning after pill likewise - I just don't find it useful to orient a debate on that question, as it ultimately comes down to what you consider a human life - Spuzzell's definition or jay_a2j's. And the dialogue never seems to lead anywhere in terms of one side sharing anything with the other.
The debate itself seems to leave both sides holding unsustainable positions. Debates over when a fetus "becomes" human have always seemed to me to lead to inevitable conclusions - if we search for some magical quality the presence or absence of which determines an organism's humanity, I think we end up realizing pretty soon that until a baby, or even a developmentally challenged adult, develops a mental capacity that surpasses an animal's, it hasn't "become" human in a way that differentiates it from the sort of organisms we kill and eat quite regularly (or many of us, anyway). This gets uncomfortably close to eugenics, which I don't think anybody wants. Setting the acceptable limit of fetal development for termination at some point between conception and speech always seems to me to be an exercise in policy, pure and simple, and is probably more wisely articulated in that sort of language than via rhetoric about humanity/non-humanity, which will quickly call into play each side's assertion of a stated belief and end all useful discussion.
That's why it's seemed to me that the furore over court cases about abortion (primarily in the U.S.) are a distracting circus. I can't verify this as I heard it in conversation, but I believe the number of abortions per year during Republican presidencies has generally been higher than during Democratic presidencies, and if it's true it makes total sense to me: I don't think laws criminalizing abortion are likely to be that successful at reducing the number of abortions - the "unwanted" pregnancy is in large part a social construct that flows necessarily from an individualistic economic system. An administration that reduces funding to social programs is going to leave more women in a position where they feel they have no choice but to have an abortion, whether it's legal or not. A true pro-life political platform would provide a program of true support for children so that mothers would not feel that they had no choice. But try selling that in Congress over the cries of the religious right that you're encouraging single motherhood...
qeee1 wrote:Honestly I think the real problem in society today is that a lot of peoples' lives are based around a mindless hedonism.
But... as regards it being purely getting off, that's an odd way of looking at it. As long as the act is not committed in a purely selfish fashion, then surely it amounts to more. Kids are not the be all and end all of sex.
I agree it's an odd way of looking at it. I attribute it to the fact that I'm an odd person.
I think what I was trying to communicate was not that kids are the be all and end all of sex, but that they're very much tied up in the whole phenomenon. We've been talking about the sex drive here as a kind of impulse that pushes you towards intercourse, pure and simple. But I can't imagine that it is. I think it's pushing us beyond intercourse. My non-existent grasp of evolutionary psychology tells me that at the deepest level, our bodies tell us sex is good because our bodies are dead-set on reproduction, continuing the presence of our chromosomes in the species, etc - a drive for genetic immortality. Now that doesn't mean that that makes sex all about children, but to me it does make it an inextricable component of the sex drive, and to ignore it is to ignore a profound part of what is going on inside us. That's why I made the unsuccessful comparison to masturbation - if we interrupt the follow through on the whole impulse that's driving us to sex in the first place, it doesn't seem that different from interrupting the continuum at the outset. The addition of another person is probably the most salient difference between masturbation and sex, so maybe I should have made the comparison to a handjob.