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s.xkitten wrote:i begged and begged and begged...by the time my parents figured it all out, it was to late...i was three months away from graduating, and they thought i could make it...barely, but i did...and hey, it made me who i am today in school...which i'm told is a good thing, but i'm not to sure...
luns101 wrote:s.xkitten wrote:hmm...two years...in 7th and 8th grade, i was beaten, shoved into lockers, the teachers would blame me for stuff (like denting the lockers)...i couldn't do anything right in class, i'd bring up valid points and get sent to the principals office...i was bullied to the point where i wouldn't get up in the morning and i developed two ulcers...when i would report stuff, the students wouldn't get in trouble because their parents worked in the office (small private school)...it ended when i got suspended on the last day of school for calling my mom during class because i was in the bathroom crying and i wanted to go home because the teacher had made me stand in front of class while she yelled at me for failing her class...when i should have gotten a good grade, i did the work, and did it well...but i didn't do what she wanted...they passed me in the class just to get me out of the school...but i wasn't allowed to walk at graduation...(not that i cared, i wasn't planning on going anyway) but it meant not getting to say goodbye to my friends who i haven't seen for three years now...
my school horror story
I can't imagine why a teacher would treat you that way - totally unprofessional. All I can say is thank you for sharing that so others can learn what not to do.
Ruben Cassar wrote:s.xkitten wrote:i begged and begged and begged...by the time my parents figured it all out, it was to late...i was three months away from graduating, and they thought i could make it...barely, but i did...and hey, it made me who i am today in school...which i'm told is a good thing, but i'm not to sure...
I doubt passing through such experiences is helpful in life. I mean it is good to know that life is hard but being bullied can have negative effects and scars that can mark you for life.
I am glad to hear that you are doing better now.
s.xkitten wrote:i can tell you why...i went to a catholic school, but i'm not even christian...neither are my parents...i went because they had such a great academic curriculum...we never went to church, or anything...i'll admit, i wasn't the best student to have in religion class, and i wrote about things that aren't what "good christian children" write about...but thats no reason to fail me...i still wrote well, behaved myself...i didn't tear the religion to shreds, i did all my homework...i should have had a 4.0....but nope...i'm the devil child...
luns101 wrote:I can't speak for other teachers, but here are things from my perspective:
I taught 7th, 9th, and 11th grade for about 5 years. 7th grade World History, 9th grade Geography, and 11th grade American History.
You get 25 - 30 students per class, most of who don't want to be there. You get a kid one-on-one and he's fine, but put him in there with his peers and he's going to cause trouble. He feels he's safe because he's got the #'s on his side. Many students would not cause trouble or make trouble if it weren't for the attention they get from their peers for their disturbance.
You try to get parents involved in the process. Sometimes it works, but for the most part their attitude is "you're the professional - just deal with it" or "what am I supposed to do about it...he/she won't listen to me". My favorite is when they say "My kid's not a bad kid, they just make bad decisions". No....if you're kid mouths off, gets into fights, or sell drugs on school grounds...they are bad. Take responsibility.
You have to go to teacher "enrichment" seminars that are really a waste of time. It's funny, because this is when teachers sort of behave like you teenagers. We don't want to be there, but the school makes us....lol. We would rather spend time with friends & family.
It's difficult to motivate kids to learn for the enjoyment of learning. You really can't tell a kid, "hey, one day you're going to need to know this stuff" because they don't see the immediate benefit of learning it. After all, they are only 12 - 18 years old and don't have that kind of perspective yet. I've had so many young adults come back to me a couple of years after getting out of school and say, "Mr. L, if I had only listened more in school...oh I wish I could go back in time".
I'll post some positive stuff later.
Dukasaur wrote:saxitoxin wrote:taking medical advice from this creature; a morbidly obese man who is 100% convinced he willed himself into becoming a woman.
Your obsession with mrswdk is really sad.
ConfederateSS wrote:Just because people are idiots... Doesn't make them wrong.
Dukasaur wrote:saxitoxin wrote:taking medical advice from this creature; a morbidly obese man who is 100% convinced he willed himself into becoming a woman.
Your obsession with mrswdk is really sad.
ConfederateSS wrote:Just because people are idiots... Doesn't make them wrong.
Dukasaur wrote:saxitoxin wrote:taking medical advice from this creature; a morbidly obese man who is 100% convinced he willed himself into becoming a woman.
Your obsession with mrswdk is really sad.
ConfederateSS wrote:Just because people are idiots... Doesn't make them wrong.
luns101 wrote:I also was not treated fairly at a private Protestant Christian school in Indiana. I hated Christians for years and vowed never to become one. It's easy to become defensive based on past treatment. Anyway, I later became a Christian close to my 21st birthday. It took years to get over the resentment of the way I was treated.
richardgarr wrote:School in general 4 me was a daily form of torter and abuse. I was moved around alot as kid and had to start as the new kid at many different schools through out grade school and high school. I was always able to do the assignments with little difficulty and was an A student when i was able to concentrate on my work....homework was pretty much nonexistant for me , since i usually was able to either finish during the school day or pass tests by reading up on the subject in question. Tests were pretty easy I found. By the time I was in grades 6 and 7 i was having anxiety attacks due to the constant harrassing i received from students.... the thought of facing 30 plus students everyday that seemed to hate me and that was always looking 4 a way to poke at me made me very scared in general of people my age ....my peers were my enemy..every day was a battle to survive or somehow avoid being the guy people made fun of pushed into walls tried to start fights with because i had the nerve to look in their general direction. By the time i got to high school I was so afraid of the world around that I would only go out at night when the world was asleep and would only attend highschool when forced to. The teachers that I complained to over the years were no help, they always assumed it was my fault somehow. I am a very caring and person and have never intentionally harmed anyone of these people that i know of...so I was in a state of paranoia and confusion most of the time in highschool ....unble to focus on school work and missing days or leaving the school grounds part way through the day ... The teachers assumed that I was trouble and had me placed into a class for delinquent students and learning problems...this of course made my mental and emotional state worse....I was finally experiencing so much anxiety that i just stopped going to school all together at the age of 15....I am very educated on many different things and have the ability to learn and grow but even to this day I cannot be near groups of teenagers or in a school like enviroment without being put into a state of near panic. I know now the psychological reasons behind the students behaviour and i know that it wasn't anything I did... unfortunately I lost out on what was supposed to be the best years of my life and was given a daily hell untill I had a complete breakdown as a result....Kids are cruel ..simple as that...I have dealt with alot of these issues and have overcome alot of trauma and side effects of that trauma....I am now quite the expert on people and the whys and hows of human interaction, Anywase i could get into details but I feel that the effects speak 4 themselves...the measure and effect of pain is unique to the person. Anywase I have first hand experience of what multiple years of bullying and abuse can due too someone. I do not wish that kind of treatment on anyone. Do to others what you want done too you..... peace love prosperity to all
luns101 wrote:I can't speak for other teachers, but here are things from my perspective:
I taught 7th, 9th, and 11th grade for about 5 years. 7th grade World History, 9th grade Geography, and 11th grade American History.
You get 25 - 30 students per class, most of who don't want to be there. You get a kid one-on-one and he's fine, but put him in there with his peers and he's going to cause trouble. He feels he's safe because he's got the #'s on his side. Many students would not cause trouble or make trouble if it weren't for the attention they get from their peers for their disturbance.
You try to get parents involved in the process. Sometimes it works, but for the most part their attitude is "you're the professional - just deal with it" or "what am I supposed to do about it...he/she won't listen to me". My favorite is when they say "My kid's not a bad kid, they just make bad decisions". No....if you're kid mouths off, gets into fights, or sell drugs on school grounds...they are bad. Take responsibility.
You have to go to teacher "enrichment" seminars that are really a waste of time. It's funny, because this is when teachers sort of behave like you teenagers. We don't want to be there, but the school makes us....lol. We would rather spend time with friends & family.
It's difficult to motivate kids to learn for the enjoyment of learning. You really can't tell a kid, "hey, one day you're going to need to know this stuff" because they don't see the immediate benefit of learning it. After all, they are only 12 - 18 years old and don't have that kind of perspective yet. I've had so many young adults come back to me a couple of years after getting out of school and say, "Mr. L, if I had only listened more in school...oh I wish I could go back in time".
I'll post some positive stuff later.
DirtyDishSoap wrote:Im Agonostic (think thats how you say it)
Dont exactly beleive in God, just want proof
Dukasaur wrote:saxitoxin wrote:taking medical advice from this creature; a morbidly obese man who is 100% convinced he willed himself into becoming a woman.
Your obsession with mrswdk is really sad.
ConfederateSS wrote:Just because people are idiots... Doesn't make them wrong.
DirtyDishSoap wrote:If the Cubs win i'll accept that theres a god![]()
I was actually a christian at one point but then i began to question, the theories of evolution all proove valid points of how we evolved and blah blah blah, but i dont beleive it to its full extent cause its basically full of holes, so now im at a lost, either i can go with God, and beleive that i will most likley end up going to hell for just being me, or i can beleive in Science and when i die it will just be darkness...both options suck
luns101 wrote:DirtyDishSoap wrote:If the Cubs win i'll accept that theres a god![]()
I was actually a christian at one point but then i began to question, the theories of evolution all proove valid points of how we evolved and blah blah blah, but i dont beleive it to its full extent cause its basically full of holes, so now im at a lost, either i can go with God, and beleive that i will most likley end up going to hell for just being me, or i can beleive in Science and when i die it will just be darkness...both options suck
One of the things that frustrates me is how things are set up as Christianity versus science as if they are totally incompatible. They are not. But I know you don't want to turn this into an apologetics forum. I'll stick to the topic.
I hope you'll check out a website I found interesting:
http://www.alwaysbeready.com/
Tell your teacher to force the class to listen to stupid music. I made my 9th grade Geography class listen to THE CARPENTERS once because they were getting out of control. Hardly ever had a problem with that class ever again. Word got around that the next class that gave me a hard time would have to face Vanilla Ice!
Dukasaur wrote:saxitoxin wrote:taking medical advice from this creature; a morbidly obese man who is 100% convinced he willed himself into becoming a woman.
Your obsession with mrswdk is really sad.
ConfederateSS wrote:Just because people are idiots... Doesn't make them wrong.
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