jay_a2j wrote:Dancing Mustard wrote:I just swatted a fly. Was that abortion? Was it wrong?
See, that's the problem. When you have a mentality where you compare a human being with a "fly" you have serious problems.

Agreed. to synasp what has been said.
1. There is a BIG difference between "liking" abortion, thinking abortion is even "OK" and the law by which we all must live. No one sane, even abortion doctors, even Planned Parenthood folks, LIKE abortion. (other than idiots ... ) They just see it as better than an absolute ban. Why? see below.
2. Similarly, it is medically and morally OK to get an abortion when the mother's life is in danger. It is also OK to remove a dead child. (but legally, that is often classified just like taking a live child ... I know, it happened to me).
3. The rest is the are of contention. The questions are thus.
A. [color=#4000BF]At what point does life really begin? Interestingly, though the Bible is often cited as reason to oppose abortions, the Bible seems to indicate birth as the point of life. In Dueteronomy, there is a greater penalty for harming a pregnant mother who gives birth to a damaged child than there is if the child is born still (dead). What changed? Not religion or faith. Medicine changed. We know without a doubt that children can hear, feel and touch well before birth. When? No one really knows. BUT, the point of three months was established as a point so far from any medically proveable point of conscience as to make abortion acceptable (though still distasteful).
Among thinking and very CARING and RELIGIOUS individuals (of many religions) there is very real and serious debate. MANY, MANY people do not believe that life has really and truly "begun" at three months. This ends up being a moral debate. One of our fundamental values as a country is that people may practice their religious and moral beliefs as pertaining to their families.
The argument here is that since people of conscience (not the idiocism to which Napoleon Ire referred or tried to claim I was referring) disagree, the government must stand back.[/color]
B.[color=#408000]Some children are plain and simply not able to survive or have anything even close to a productive or "happy" (define it as you will) life. For some, that might mean they question bringing into the world a child with the most sever spina bifida. For others, an a-cephalic child (a child with a brain stem, such that heart and lungs will work, but no brain or only a very, very rudimentary brain that does not function in any real way). For others pain is the criteria. Now, I want to state that on a personal level, I would do what I could to save almost any child. A cephalicism? I don't know. A child that would be in serious and severe pain AND not have the ability to talk,even blink their eyes .. .I would probably (???) question whether it was best to bring that child into the world.
BUT, the bottom line is that laws are for everyone. Dealing with a
severely disabled child is an ENORMOUS undertaking,
even with all current medical advances. I would not tell a parent they could not raise such a child, BUT do I, or a group of legislators have the right to tell parents int eh deepest pain they will ever experience, consulting with their doctors and (if religious) clergy... do I have the right to sit here, with my 2 healthy children to tell them what to do? I say NO. EVEN IF they decision they might make is not my own, it is just too personal a choice. There are just too, too, too many variables for any law to take them all into account[/color].
C. Is a LAW, the best way to prevent abortions? The predominant opinion has been that education is where the real focus must lie. Education that covers how, what happens, how to prevent, consequences of (pregnancy, diseases, life changes. etc.). For teens, this is appropriately called "abstinence" because we (as a society) don't want teens getting pregnant. There are very real and true reasons why teens, specifically, should not get pregnant. For older adults ... it becomes a moral judgement. BUT, the goal is to give people enough information so that they can make whatever decision is right for them. The result will be, IS fewer abortions, fewer pregnancies.
Not mentioned, except in passing is that we also need decent social networks so that if a young teen or even older single becomes pregnant, they can
afford to keep that child if they wish.
D. Options are not always available. Some people find abortion actually more ethical than adoption. (I
don't agree, I just acknowledge the position) The argument is that it is our greatest responsibility to care for and raise our children to be "good citizens" If we cannot, then we cannot trust society to do so.
Many teens face being kicked out of their homes or physical/ mental abuse if they reveal a pregnancy. (even today) The bodes poorly for the well-being of the child AND the teen.
Many adults have similarly serious reasons for wanting abortions. Again, I DON'T agrree with many of those reasons, BUT, the point is that many of these will get one whether it is legal or not. My grandmother was a nurse before Roe vs. Wade. The nurses back then were in favor of legalized abortion because they saw too many women DYING from illegal abortion shops.
The voices presented here fall across the spectrum. On the one end is Napoleon Ier, who feels that all birth control is basically the same as abortion. He has probably done more to discredit his position than anything else by raising all kinds of idiotic analogies and evern resorting to literally changing folk's words (mine in particular). There are, however others who voice a similar opinion in more reasonable terms. There really haven't been any voices (that I can remember) seriously claiming that abortion should be allowed "whenever", but I might just have declines to read those positions.
MOST folks fall somewhere in between. Most of the discussion centers on the "grey areas". AND, questioning various statistics and information presented.
BOTTOM LINE: I think just about everyone can agree that abortion is NOT something to be taken lightly. But, there is a very seriously considered range of beliefs about this. For that reason, I have argued that this just does not belong in the hands of the legislator. It is a personal decision. Even if, the decision made is not one I would agree with or like.
In addition to the above, there were several very personnal stories shared.