I just had my first AIM conversation with a girl I like

[Anarkistsdream]

AD if I had AIM would you talk to me like that

Hahaha... I don't use IM programs... But if I did, it would definitely be so we could cyber.

neither do I wanna pm j/k

I'd never get my rocks off that way, babe.

I'm not one of the kids on the site that has never touched a real breast...

[Tyr]

she will probaly never talk to you again and if i was i her id callt he police

if you need a ride or something

what the hellw ere you thinking

[apey]

where do you live again

[Anarkistsdream]

:shock: where do you live again

Too far away from you, unfortunately.


And, back on topic, I agree with Tyr whole-heartedly.

[Lucky Se7en]

Before I posted "A no just means try again in 5 minutes", but I quickly deleted that post because I could see a restraining order coming

[Kaplowitz]

she didnt have to leave. she was lying

[Plutoman]

I got her screen name today under the pretext of helping her with trigonometry and I decided to give it a shot since she's breaking up with her boyfriend soon.

mybrotherisdu (6:28:38 PM): What's up, this is Nick from trig class.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:02 PM): oh heyy nick!
mybrotherisdu (6:30:11 PM): Need any help with math?
mybrotherisdu (6:30:19 PM): Or anything else?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:54 PM): nah i get it now
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:59 PM): thx to you
XXXXXXXXXX (6:31:02 PM): =)
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): How was your day? All great, starts off a bit humorous, don't know if you intended that, but it does a bit. Her response is good.
mybrotherisdu (6:35:47 PM): Please respond. Not good imo. Doesn't set off a good impression, makes her think you're impatient to talk with her.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:35:56 PM): it was good
mybrotherisdu (6:36:56 PM): Is your internet lagging? Most girls aren't too curious on how the internet works, and if it lags a bit, usually don't mind
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:00 PM): for a monday atl east
mybrotherisdu (6:37:02 PM): I can help you fix that. It sounds like you're desperate to be able to help her with something to get her attention. Avoid that Help her when she needs it, don't offer at every slightest opportunity.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:39 PM): no im just a lil busy atm
mybrotherisdu (6:37:50 PM): Oh, sorry.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:12 PM): lol nah its ok
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:18 PM): nothing major
mybrotherisdu (6:38:26 PM): Oh. Just a little dry, imo.
mybrotherisdu (6:45:03 PM): Hey, well btw I passed my driving test today and I'm going to get a car this weekend. Here, you sound like you're trying to brag to get some attention.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:13 PM): heyy i gtg
mybrotherisdu (6:45:14 PM): In case you ever need a ride somewhere. A bit awkward, but not as bad as some of the others. Get to know her a bit more before you start offering rides, however. You still sound a bit desperate.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:21 PM): nice talking to you
mybrotherisdu (6:45:23 PM): Oh. Very blunt. Imo, it kinda sounds like you felt like it was the end of the world to have her leave the convo.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:26 PM): bye
mybrotherisdu (6:45:34 PM): Well I'll see you 7th period tomorrow! Not too bad, I would suggest saying something like, "no problem, I'll see you tomorrow", as it still sounds like it is a big deal she is leaving.
XXXXXXXXXX signed off at 6:45:36 PM



Some parts were good like when she "haha"'d at me and thanked me, but at other parts I felt really shaky and awkward. How was it/10?

Edit:
Blue = Good
Red = Bad
Green = Comments, it's constructive criticism, don't take any personally Just pointing out problems so you'll be able to fix it next time.

Overall, you were extremely awkward about it, I'd make a guess you were probably just about to the point of shaking for worry over it? Trust me, first time is always hard It takes a bit, but you need to act more natural, you sounded extremely desperate, and that's probably the worst thing to come across as.

Be more casual, don't offer assistance for every minor thing, be polite, and be curious. Ask her how she is, but don't phrase it in ways that makes her think you're prying. You want her to think you're genuinely curious about how she is (which you probably are, at least should be) for no reason than just as a friend, at least until you know her better.

I'd have to say a 4/10, but first time is always hard. Biggest thing is read what you are typing, and look at it, examine it. If it sounds desperate for attention, don't post that (or say it if actually talking to her). Come across casual. Her responses at first were great, but towards the end I'm thinking she could tell you were trying to impress her And that made her feel awkward. Tbh, I don't think she truly had to go, but was saying that because of how awkward it was getting for her. Don't push so much, give her time.

It can be hard to explain, but if you want, PM me and I can give you actual examples which might be better, to see a comparison.

[jnd94]

Well, Im not much better, but you sounded pretty bad in that. Needy would be the word. It's AIM, how can you be nervous? Just be yourself, dont force anything.

[soundout9]

mybrotherisdu (6:28:38 PM): What's up, this is Nick from trig class.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:02 PM): oh heyy nick!
mybrotherisdu (6:30:11 PM): Need any help with math?
mybrotherisdu (6:30:19 PM): Or getting an orgasm?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:54 PM): nah i get it now
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:59 PM): thx to you
XXXXXXXXXX (6:31:02 PM): =)
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): Are your parents home?
mybrotherisdu (6:35:47 PM): Please respond. I'm fucking horny right now.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:35:56 PM): Oh really?
mybrotherisdu (6:36:56 PM): Is your internet lagging? We can chat in person then.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:00 PM): for a monday atl east
mybrotherisdu (6:37:02 PM): Today's not monday Fucker. It's Thursday
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:39 PM): no im just a lil busy atm
mybrotherisdu (6:37:50 PM): I'll come over and help then
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:12 PM): lol nah its ok
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:18 PM): nothing major
mybrotherisdu (6:38:26 PM): Oh. You want to come to my house?
mybrotherisdu (6:45:03 PM): Hey, well btw I just measured my dick. It's 10 inches... in cirumference
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:13 PM): heyy i gtg
mybrotherisdu (6:45:14 PM): OK, see you in about 10 minutes
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:21 PM): nice talking to you
mybrotherisdu (6:45:23 PM): Oh, we'll be doing more than just talking when you get here
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:26 PM): bye
mybrotherisdu (6:45:34 PM): Well I'll see you soon. P.S.: I'm naked and horny!
XXXXXXXXXX signed off at 6:45:36 PM

I edited it to what it should have been like.

Dude not even close your just a tool

[ParadiceCity9]

Dude you blow. That was actually despicable. It sucks though the chick I like a lot doesn't have AIM...and I somehow got talkin about that at school and she was like 'no (lol) AIM's a waste of time' (like facebook isnt... ) But over the summer, I met this really cool girl at a golf camp I went to. I got her screenname and number on the last day of the camp. The first day after we talked for an hour, then the second day, 6 hours, the day after that, like 4 and a half hours. We ended up seeing 2 movies together at the mall. The second of the two dates was definitely better than the first, but after it she stopped getting online. School had just started so I figured she was really busy...but it got to the point where if she was she was busy, f*ck that. So ya I haven't talked to her in like 3 months ): I really liked her

[ignotus]

This looks like you copy-pasted my last msn conversation with a girl...

Except I was drunk and so horny.

[wrightfan123]

Dude you blow. That was actually despicable. It sucks though the chick I like a lot doesn't have AIM...and I somehow got talkin about that at school and she was like 'no (lol) AIM's a waste of time' (like facebook isnt... ) But over the summer, I met this really cool girl at a golf camp I went to. I got her screenname and number on the last day of the camp. The first day after we talked for an hour, then the second day, 6 hours, the day after that, like 4 and a half hours. We ended up seeing 2 movies together at the mall. The second of the two dates was definitely better than the first, but after it she stopped getting online. School had just started so I figured she was really busy...but it got to the point where if she was she was busy, f*ck that. So ya I haven't talked to her in like 3 months ): I really liked her

I can't tell, are you giving constructive criticism or just trying to make us all feel sorry for you.

Btw, amigo. As a guy who came this close (*holds hands the length of an ant*) to getting this strategy to work, listen closely. First, be funny. Girls like funny guys. Secondly, get to know her, but don't be her stalker. If you can, sit closer to her most days in any classes you share with her. If someone you know asks for you to sit by them, do so, or else she'll be tipped off (hell, she should be already!). Finally, chat with her in school. On Fridays, ask her what she's doing. If she asks what your doing, always have something, so it looks like you were just curious. Even if you know your not going anywhere, say something like

Yea, I might be going to my friends house tonight.

And on AIM, be cool and be NORMAL. Good luck! You're gonna need it.

[DiM]

why do kids these days have to use internet to talk to a girl?

what happened with the good old fashined face to face discussions when your palms get sweaty and she turns all red when you kiss her?

oh i'm too old for this.

btw if i was that girl and saw you talking to me like that i would take full advantage of your feelings and use you like a slave.

2 advices when talking to a girl (this coming from a married man)

1. be honest.
2. don't be afraid.

yeah lying about your fancy car and fat back account may get you a few freestyle 1v1 rounds but in the long run if you want things to keep escalating always be honest. as far as fear goes i know it's hard at first. you're afraid you'll get rejected, you're afraid she might not like the way you kiss, etc but with time and practice experience comes and you'll get better.

[ParadiceCity9]

Dude you blow. That was actually despicable. It sucks though the chick I like a lot doesn't have AIM...and I somehow got talkin about that at school and she was like 'no (lol) AIM's a waste of time' (like facebook isnt... ) But over the summer, I met this really cool girl at a golf camp I went to. I got her screenname and number on the last day of the camp. The first day after we talked for an hour, then the second day, 6 hours, the day after that, like 4 and a half hours. We ended up seeing 2 movies together at the mall. The second of the two dates was definitely better than the first, but after it she stopped getting online. School had just started so I figured she was really busy...but it got to the point where if she was she was busy, f*ck that. So ya I haven't talked to her in like 3 months ): I really liked her

I can't tell, are you giving constructive criticism or just trying to make us all feel sorry for you.

the second one (:

[InkL0sed]

why do kids these days have to use internet to talk to a girl?

what happened with the good old fashined face to face discussions when your palms get sweaty and she turns all red when you kiss her?

oh i'm too old for this.

btw if i was that girl and saw you talking to me like that i would take full advantage of your feelings and use you like a slave.

2 advices when talking to a girl (this coming from a married man)

1. be honest.
2. don't be afraid.

yeah lying about your fancy car and fat back account may get you a few freestyle 1v1 rounds but in the long run if you want things to keep escalating always be honest. as far as fear goes i know it's hard at first. you're afraid you'll get rejected, you're afraid she might not like the way you kiss, etc but with time and practice experience comes and you'll get better.

Oh god the puns! *mind explosion*

Might how ask how old you are, Snake?

[0ojakeo0]

That was was just bad. dont ever say please respond.EVER. EVAR!. and dont make it obvious that you wanna hang.if she wants to chill she will ask.

[ParadiceCity9]

That was was just bad. dont ever say please respond.EVER. EVAR!. and dont make it obvious that you wanna hang.if she wants to chill she will ask.

well put on the 'please respond'

[DiM]

why do kids these days have to use internet to talk to a girl?

what happened with the good old fashined face to face discussions when your palms get sweaty and she turns all red when you kiss her?

oh i'm too old for this.

btw if i was that girl and saw you talking to me like that i would take full advantage of your feelings and use you like a slave.

2 advices when talking to a girl (this coming from a married man)

1. be honest.
2. don't be afraid.

yeah lying about your fancy car and fat back account may get you a few freestyle 1v1 rounds but in the long run if you want things to keep escalating always be honest. as far as fear goes i know it's hard at first. you're afraid you'll get rejected, you're afraid she might not like the way you kiss, etc but with time and practice experience comes and you'll get better.

Oh god the puns! *mind explosion*

Might how ask how old you are, Snake?

25

[InkL0sed]

why do kids these days have to use internet to talk to a girl?

what happened with the good old fashined face to face discussions when your palms get sweaty and she turns all red when you kiss her?

oh i'm too old for this.

btw if i was that girl and saw you talking to me like that i would take full advantage of your feelings and use you like a slave.

2 advices when talking to a girl (this coming from a married man)

1. be honest.
2. don't be afraid.

yeah lying about your fancy car and fat back account may get you a few freestyle 1v1 rounds but in the long run if you want things to keep escalating always be honest. as far as fear goes i know it's hard at first. you're afraid you'll get rejected, you're afraid she might not like the way you kiss, etc but with time and practice experience comes and you'll get better.

Oh god the puns! *mind explosion*

Might how ask how old you are, Snake?

25

I was actually asking SnakeySnake, but it's nice that you responded too, DiM

[DiM]

why do kids these days have to use internet to talk to a girl?

what happened with the good old fashined face to face discussions when your palms get sweaty and she turns all red when you kiss her?

oh i'm too old for this.

btw if i was that girl and saw you talking to me like that i would take full advantage of your feelings and use you like a slave.

2 advices when talking to a girl (this coming from a married man)

1. be honest.
2. don't be afraid.

yeah lying about your fancy car and fat back account may get you a few freestyle 1v1 rounds but in the long run if you want things to keep escalating always be honest. as far as fear goes i know it's hard at first. you're afraid you'll get rejected, you're afraid she might not like the way you kiss, etc but with time and practice experience comes and you'll get better.

Oh god the puns! *mind explosion*

Might how ask how old you are, Snake?

25

I was actually asking SnakeySnake, but it's nice that you responded too, DiM

i thought you were asking me. the snake thing confused me cause that's how all the girls call me

[Neoteny]

What, no pictures? You are not successful in an online conversation until you at least get a picture of her boobs. You have two more tries to get boob pics, and then you have to give her up for good... you will have screwed it up.

[diddle]

Oh dear.

/agree

QFT

[got tonkaed]

i have an impression that far too many people took this thread seriously.

[InkL0sed]

I think getting girls-advice online is... interesting.

[caliboi2009]

no u totally screwed it up towards the end