A "Relationship" Question

Avron · Post by **Avron** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 1:54 am

This includes a story, so bear with me here, and tell me if I'm out of line.

I started dating a girl I really liked a while back, we only dated for a short time back then, like a few months ago. And just this weekend she got on this kick about how because I don't believe in Christianity(general religion for that matter) its going to cause problems with us. Now we never have problems with this, I leave her to be all talk to her about it if she wants . She's 18 but she still goes to her Youth Ministry and she got back and just lays into me with this talk and it leads to I don't see how where gonna work as a married couple, shes a bit ahead of her self right there any who, because my dad doesn't believe and my parents relationship is strained because of it. Keeps dragging this her parents shit out and out and keeps telling me its not gonna work etc. etc. she doesn't know what to do because she really likes and loves me and I completely ripped into her after that with this is exactly my problem with region, I can stand you but where not gonna work all of the sudden because your youth minister talked to you(shit started the moment she got back from youth group). We go fucking round for round with this shit right eh I just flipped(well just say this for now because this becoming TL;DR) I couldn't take it, Broke up with her, not going in to the juicy details for this shit this is already to much like a gossip column, and my question pertains to this. Is it pretentious of me to think region completely ruins relationships?

Iliad · Post by **Iliad** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 2:04 am

I don't see how it should. If both people are tolerating and understanding of the other person's religion it shouldn't be a problem

Norse · Post by **Norse** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 2:38 am

If she believes in this so strongly, and you are adamantly not going to convert, then it will not work....I know from bitter experience that these kind of things don't work themselves out.

It is better to have ende it before it got serious.

Skoffin · Post by **Skoffin** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 4:06 am

She sounds like a knob.

Annnnnyway, it is not religions fault, it is the persons. Two people of different beliefs can have a relationship and have it work out if they tried. I think that people that do bring religion into why the relationship cannot work unless the other converts is either a knob, or is just looking for reasons to make it not work.
Or something <<

ignotus · Post by **ignotus** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 7:52 am

Skoffin wrote:She sounds like a knob.

Annnnnyway, it is not religions fault, it is the persons. Two people of different beliefs can have a relationship and have it work out if they tried. I think that people that do bring religion into why the relationship cannot work unless the other converts is either a knob, or is just looking for reasons to make it not work.
Or something <<

QFT

If the two people truly like each other then religion isn't the problem.

I think that you should try to talk to her again (if you still like her) and tell her how you feel (one more time)...

Norse · Post by **Norse** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 7:55 am

Tell her that you have decided to convert.....to a jew, and that your wanger is now less.

That'll teach her.

ignotus · Post by **ignotus** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 8:01 am

I just hate religious fanatics! I'm a convinced Roman Catholic and I went to Christian High School but fanatics are just weird! Like they are brainwashed or something; walking and talking like robots... ](*,)

autoload · Post by **autoload** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 9:01 am

Skoffin wrote: She sounds like a knob.

She can play with my knob.

btownmeggy · Post by **btownmeggy** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 9:17 am

Norse wrote:If she believes in this so strongly, and you are adamantly not going to convert, then it will not work....I know from bitter experience that these kind of things don't work themselves out.

It is better to have ende it before it got serious.

Yes.

magneticgoop · Post by **magneticgoop** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 9:19 am

trust me two religion marriages almost never work, i have several friends who one was a Christian and the other not and only one has survived but only after LOTS of ongoing work. the problems start arising when she wants to go to church with you but you don't see the reason why and plan something else. Also a major thing is you will have a lot of influence on her and you WILL make her backslide in her faith, which isn't your fault it is just you are not going the same direction as her and more likely than not you will drag her away. It is for the best for both of you that you split up, better luck next time on finding a girl

Titanic · Post by **Titanic** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 11:32 am

It can definately work. I know Muslims and Hindus who have married and both being religious towards their religion, and still made the marriage work. You need to work on you similarities, not you differences, and if you talk about religion try not to get worked up.

Avron · Post by **Avron** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 2:59 pm

Appreciated.

cawck mongler · Post by **cawck mongler** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 5:21 pm

TL;DR? What the f*ck, this isn't 4chan you little faggot. I bet you just made this thread so you could write that, fucking twelve year old.

s.xkitten · Post by **s.xkitten** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 7:55 pm

Two people that believe in completely different religions can make it work. It all depends on the people

hecter · Post by **hecter** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 7:57 pm

cawck mongler wrote:TL;DR? What the f*ck, this isn't 4chan you little faggot. I bet you just made this thread so you could write that, fucking twelve year old.

Dude, what the hell is the matter with you? This isn't Flame Wars, man.

Avron · Post by **Avron** » Mon Oct 15, 2007 11:17 pm

hecter wrote:
cawck mongler wrote:TL;DR? What the f*ck, this isn't 4chan you little faggot. I bet you just made this thread so you could write that, fucking twelve year old.

Dude, what the hell is the matter with you? This isn't Flame Wars, man.

Because it began on 4chan it can't leave? TL;DR is old as hell, its not like I"m using some new meme like a prick. Any who, Wheres your damn response hecter >< I've been waiting all day XD.

xtratabasco · Post by **xtratabasco** » Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:48 am

why dont you have a couple of fucking kids and then try to work it out.

at the tax payers and neighbors expense no doubt, you douche bag.

btownmeggy · Post by **btownmeggy** » Tue Oct 16, 2007 9:20 am

xtratabasco wrote:why dont you have a couple of fucking kids and then try to work it out.

at the tax payers and neighbors expense no doubt, you douche bag.

Are you married xtra?

b.k. barunt · Post by **b.k. barunt** » Tue Oct 16, 2007 9:30 am

The only way that such a relationship would work is if the beliefs of the two people involved were half assed. If you believe something passionately, you look for a mate who believes the same things - it's easy to get sidetracked though if she has a great ass.

Honibaz

Norse · Post by **Norse** » Tue Oct 16, 2007 9:33 am

Exactly...

It's like Xtra marrying an illegal immigrant.

xtratabasco · Post by **xtratabasco** » Tue Oct 16, 2007 10:11 am

Norse wrote:Exactly...

It's like Xtra marrying an illegal immigrant.

yes....

I want them the f*ck out

and they want the f*ck in

a match made in hell.

hecter · Post by **hecter** » Tue Oct 16, 2007 3:38 pm

Avron wrote:
hecter wrote:
cawck mongler wrote:TL;DR? What the f*ck, this isn't 4chan you little faggot. I bet you just made this thread so you could write that, fucking twelve year old.

Dude, what the hell is the matter with you? This isn't Flame Wars, man.

Because it began on 4chan it can't leave? TL;DR is old as hell, its not like I"m using some new meme like a prick. Any who, Wheres your damn response hecter >< I've been waiting all day XD.

Um... Wouldn't work in this case, simply because she lets her religion control her life. You could easily find somebody who has a religion, but it just has to take a secondary place in her life, and you both have to make sacrifices (such as not spending time with her while she's at church or other religious events).

soundout9 · Post by **soundout9** » Tue Oct 16, 2007 6:29 pm

dude Avron i so want your signature

b.k. barunt · Post by **b.k. barunt** » Tue Oct 16, 2007 6:42 pm

xtratabasco wrote:
Norse wrote:Exactly...

It's like Xtra marrying an illegal immigrant.

yes....

I want them the f*ck out

and they want the f*ck in

a match made in hell.

Sounds like date rape to me.

Honibaz

misterman10 · Post by **misterman10** » Tue Oct 16, 2007 8:36 pm

soundout9 wrote:dude Avron i so want your signature

It's somewhere in here:
http://s101.photobucket.com/albums/m71/ ... ?start=180

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