Do i look like im cheating?

Dariune · Post by **Dariune** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 8:42 am

Hi guys
Could do with peoples opinions again from those that have the time.
Im playing a game with my gf and some other people and it is now down to me, my girlfriend and one other person named CrashBarbarian.

He got very upset when i attacked him, which i did because he had all of scotland and i had all of ireland. I then joked when i attacked my girlfriend saying that .... well you can see in the chat log. He has accused me of cheating and is obviously very upset.
Both me and my girlfriend have tried very hard to be as aggresive towards each other as anyone else.

Can you guys have a look at the game and see whether he is justified?

The game is: 153877

HoustonNutt · Post by **HoustonNutt** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 8:48 am

Dariune wrote:Hi guys
Could do with peoples opinions again from those that have the time.
Im playing a game with my gf and some other people and it is now down to me, my girlfriend and one other person named CrashBarbarian.

He got very upset when i attacked him, which i did because he had all of scotland and i had all of ireland. I then joked when i attacked my girlfriend saying that .... well you can see in the chat log. He has accused me of cheating and is obviously very upset.
Both me and my girlfriend have tried very hard to be as aggresive towards each other as anyone else.

Can you guys have a look at the game and see whether he is justified?

The game is: 153877

To answer this question, we will need to see a picture of your girlfriend.

Dariune · Post by **Dariune** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 8:54 am

Hahahaha
No way, She is far too hot to hand over to someone i dont know .... for free .... ahem

Kugelblitz22 · Post by **Kugelblitz22** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 9:29 am

A hot girlfriend that plays risk?

yeti_c · Post by **yeti_c** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 9:51 am

I reckon you've attacked each other more than anyone else... quite the opposite of the problem.

C.

Dariune · Post by **Dariune** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 10:06 am

A hot girlfriend that plays risk?

Yup

I reckon you've attacked each other more than anyone else... quite the opposite of the problem.

C.

Thankyou for your opinion, thats what i thought was the case ...therefore his racist insults arent justified!

Jallen · Post by **Jallen** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 10:17 am

had a similar experience when i played with my brother one time. People just don't like losing thats all and they look for some reason to justify why they are crap! the easiest option is to make out that two people are against one it makes them feel better about their lack luster performance.

Don't worry about it chap!

How an earth did you get your girlfriend into this, your my hero!!!!

Dariune · Post by **Dariune** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 10:44 am

Hehe thanks Jallen, thats good to hear. He is actually really irritating me because i am trying to explain but he just keeps insulting me/us.

She started playing i think because of the "if you cant beat them join them" saying. Whenever she wanted to do "something else " i would say "yeah let me just have another go".
Eventually she decided she would have to see what all the fuss is about. Now she is a premium member and loves it. Though i think this guy is putting her off it a bit:( She hasnt been playing long

Jallen · Post by **Jallen** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 11:04 am

Yeah i did the same but he was not having it either, he left me negative feedback! so i left him some and then he got one of his mates to get it deleted for him saying it was retaliatory! peed me, off so make sure if your gonna leave negative feedback do it before he does so you can't get accused of retaliating. : )

Thats so funny i'm always saying that to my wife 'just give me a minute i need to take another go' she unfortunately is a little more stubborn and wont give it a go herself. Well i'm in awe and slightly jealous at the fact that you managed to rope yours in. WELL DONE.

all the best

AAFitz · Post by **AAFitz** » Thu Jan 11, 2007 11:41 am

it is hard for anyone to trust that you will not favor your girlfriend, brother or very close friend

granted at this point i talk to the people in here more than real world people...but it is different

personally i only play doubles or private games with people i know in the outside world to eliminate any problems

i really do suggest that private games are the way to go...there are 300 to 400 people on at any given time

play doubles with your girlfriend or bro, singles with other couples or people that accept your situation

play public games seperately

i have a lot of experience with this...its the only way to go...with friends obviously its a little different, but with the girlfriend...you will get questions a lot

its not just that you might favor your girlfriend its that you might have to to win, and then it just looks bad and makes everyone feel cheated...you may have made the same exact move with a complete stranger but no one would feel cheated....well most...someone always feels cheated...

pm me anytime you want to play doubles against me and mine....couples games can really be an absolute blast.....absolutely even playing field,
no opportunity to cheat, and no real stress whatsoever, just some friendly competition and a way for couples to play together, work together, and possibly fight over every single mistake the other makes...but thats another story

if you enjoy conquering your girlfriend...switch partners....(i mean in here)

good luck

Beastly · Post by **Beastly** » Fri Jan 12, 2007 12:05 am

IF you and your girlfriend are playing from the same computer, against each other you may be busted for being a multi.... and people come on here all the time and say they are playing with there brother and girlfriend and such... if you don't want the trouble don't play against each other...

Go buy the board game and invite some friends if you want to play against each other...

if your hot girlfriend is playing on her own computer you shouldn't have a problem..

Dariune · Post by **Dariune** » Fri Jan 12, 2007 4:10 am

Beastly wrote:IF you and your girlfriend are playing from the same computer, against each other you may be busted for being a multi.... and people come on here all the time and say they are playing with there brother and girlfriend and such... if you don't want the trouble don't play against each other...

Go buy the board game and invite some friends if you want to play against each other...

if your hot girlfriend is playing on her own computer you shouldn't have a problem..

She has taken one turn from my computer because she stayed round my house last night but the rest she has taken from her own machine.

I expect if we got the board game she wouldnt play, you know how girls can be :wink:

AAfitz, im sure we would be happy to play you and yours, or to swap partners even haha
I dont think hopwever that there is anything in the game to suggest we are cheating or for Crash to feel cheated about. I told her from the start i wouldnt go easy on her and she said the same to me.

Miandw, Thankyou for coming and intervening. That is greatly apreciated. Maybe now the rubbish in chat will stop and we can get on and play.

Honestly guys im not a multi, i have several friends who play here including Stooby, Monkus, Rob Paynme and of course A Diamond tear.
If i wanted to talk like we are in chat then i would go to the pub and get in a fight. Here i just wanna play risk. I know i could stop talking back but he is ******* me off!
Thanks all for your thoughts

btownmeggy · Post by **btownmeggy** » Sun Jan 14, 2007 10:01 pm

Dariune wrote:you know how girls can be

HOW can girls be???

Dariune · Post by **Dariune** » Mon Jan 15, 2007 7:11 am

Oh you know .... wonderfull, non-bitchy, pretty, calm, sensible, fun .... ahem.

phew

Dariune · Post by **Dariune** » Mon Jan 15, 2007 7:13 am

On a side note it appears Crash is friends with Sertel who was in that game so really has nothing to complain about!!! The hypocrypt

nyg5680 · Post by **nyg5680** » Mon Jan 15, 2007 8:11 am

btownmeggy wrote:
Dariune wrote:you know how girls can be

HOW can girls be???

some bodys in trouble :lol:

Dariune · Post by **Dariune** » Mon Jan 15, 2007 8:14 am

Im rarely not in trouble ...

nyg5680 · Post by **nyg5680** » Mon Jan 15, 2007 8:15 am

well i could see y wit those coments lol

a-diamond-tear · Post by **a-diamond-tear** » Wed Jan 17, 2007 9:54 am

Dariune wrote:Im rarely not in trouble ...

You're always in trouble but I know exactly how to sort you out :wink:

Enigma · Post by **Enigma** » Wed Jan 17, 2007 12:06 pm

Dariune wrote:She started playing i think because of the "if you cant beat them join them" saying. Whenever she wanted to do "something else " i would say "yeah let me just have another go".
Eventually she decided she would have to see what all the fuss is about. Now she is a premium member and loves it. Though i think this guy is putting her off it a bit:( She hasnt been playing long

lol this situation sounds strangely familiar, a-diamond-tear. and who was that who was shocked that hot girlfriends play risk??? :twisted:

Do i look like im cheating?

Do i look like im cheating?

Re: Do i look like im cheating?

accused of cheating!!