black elk speaks wrote:
I don't think so. I think the issue is mainly based on the fact that homo's want to be recognized in the same way with regards to hetero's in terms of matrimony. In a lot of cases, homo lovers can have power of attorney over their homo lover, but that is only a legal standing. Largely, I think that they want to have homo marriage so that they can say that they are married... so that he can say, "this is my husband" and she can say "this is my wife." They really just want equality, or so I think.
There certainly are some who want to be on equal terms with heterosexuals, but you are wrong about the power of attorney solving things. Most people don't carry their papers with them when traveling, for one. Also, when it comes to child custody issues, states vary considerably on how they deal with this. Florida apparently won't even allow homosexuals to adopt .. at all.
A lot of this was covered in depth pages ago. I won't reiterate, but there are many, many very practical things that married people get without a thought. At some point we just have to ask, if our society is to be free, why NOT?
I don't necessarily "agree with" homosexuality. But, I also don't believe in telling others what to do unless it is necessary for our general protection (or plain practicality .. when it comes to building permits and such).