I just had my first AIM conversation with a girl I like

SnakeySnakey · Post by **SnakeySnakey** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:57 pm

I got her screen name today under the pretext of helping her with trigonometry and I decided to give it a shot since she's breaking up with her boyfriend soon.

mybrotherisdu (6:28:38 PM): What's up, this is Nick from trig class.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:02 PM): oh heyy nick!
mybrotherisdu (6:30:11 PM): Need any help with math?
mybrotherisdu (6:30:19 PM): Or anything else?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:54 PM): nah i get it now
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:59 PM): thx to you
XXXXXXXXXX (6:31:02 PM): =)
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): How was your day?
mybrotherisdu (6:35:47 PM): Please respond.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:35:56 PM): it was good
mybrotherisdu (6:36:56 PM): Is your internet lagging?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:00 PM): for a monday atl east
mybrotherisdu (6:37:02 PM): I can help you fix that.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:39 PM): no im just a lil busy atm
mybrotherisdu (6:37:50 PM): Oh, sorry.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:12 PM): lol nah its ok
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:18 PM): nothing major
mybrotherisdu (6:38:26 PM): Oh.
mybrotherisdu (6:45:03 PM): Hey, well btw I passed my driving test today and I'm going to get a car this weekend.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:13 PM): heyy i gtg
mybrotherisdu (6:45:14 PM): In case you ever need a ride somewhere.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:21 PM): nice talking to you
mybrotherisdu (6:45:23 PM): Oh.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:26 PM): bye
mybrotherisdu (6:45:34 PM): Well I'll see you 7th period tomorrow!
XXXXXXXXXX signed off at 6:45:36 PM

Some parts were good like when she "haha"'d at me and thanked me, but at other parts I felt really shaky and awkward. How was it/10?

got tonkaed · Post by **got tonkaed** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:57 pm

7 or 8...you guys should be dating within a week.

Lucky Se7en · Post by **Lucky Se7en** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:58 pm

You're in

wcaclimbing · Post by **wcaclimbing** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:59 pm

i think you pulled a 3, maybe a 4 there....

You were trying way too hard...

btownmeggy · Post by **btownmeggy** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:59 pm

Oh dear.

riggable · Post by **riggable** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:00 pm

jeez soooo awkward, hahahaha I've always been kinda smooth on AIM(which differs quite a bit from real life)
My first girlfriend I talked to permanently on AIM for a good half year before we met up and subsequently started dating.
Also there was this girl from another state who was a friend of a friend who I talked to Only on AIM for a year or so and then she told me she was in love with me(wicked creapy, mmhmm)

I'd give you like a 3/10 on that, she kinda really shut you down, although she did seem grateful for your math help.

Try again tommorow, i guess.

riggable · Post by **riggable** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:02 pm

mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): How was your day?
mybrotherisdu (6:35:47 PM): Please respond.

don't EVER do that again ^, that really made me cringe.

mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha

^that was good, do more of that.

Coleman · Post by **Coleman** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:02 pm

You are either significantly above the friend zone to the point she is flustered around you or you don't even qualify for that. I can't tell.

Harijan · Post by **Harijan** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:03 pm

btownmeggy wrote:Oh dear.

/agree

Risktaker17 · Post by **Risktaker17** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:04 pm

yeah tell her about CC that'll get her. Yeah and if she stops talking you can ease back to the convo, don't just say HELLO HELLO YOU THERE!

Grooveman2007 · Post by **Grooveman2007** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:04 pm

Pretty awkward, you might be able to recover though, just play it cool and don't be so pushy next time. Best of luck.

kwanton · Post by **kwanton** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:08 pm

AIM=bad

If you really like her try having conversations face to face instead of on aim. This is just my experience as I'm much more awkward thru the internets than face to face. May just be me tho....

suggs · Post by **suggs** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:10 pm

Has she sucked you off yet?
Its what love means.

misterman10 · Post by **misterman10** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:11 pm

SnakeySnakey wrote:mybrotherisdu (6:28:38 PM): What's up, this is Nick from trig class.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:02 PM): oh heyy nick!
mybrotherisdu (6:30:11 PM): Need any help with math?
mybrotherisdu (6:30:19 PM): Or getting an orgasm?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:54 PM): nah i get it now
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:59 PM): thx to you
XXXXXXXXXX (6:31:02 PM): =)
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): Are your parents home?
mybrotherisdu (6:35:47 PM): Please respond. I'm fucking horny right now.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:35:56 PM): Oh really?
mybrotherisdu (6:36:56 PM): Is your internet lagging? We can chat in person then.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:00 PM): for a monday atl east
mybrotherisdu (6:37:02 PM): Today's not monday Fucker. It's Thursday
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:39 PM): no im just a lil busy atm
mybrotherisdu (6:37:50 PM): I'll come over and help then
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:12 PM): lol nah its ok
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:18 PM): nothing major
mybrotherisdu (6:38:26 PM): Oh. You want to come to my house?
mybrotherisdu (6:45:03 PM): Hey, well btw I just measured my dick. It's 10 inches... in cirumference
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:13 PM): heyy i gtg
mybrotherisdu (6:45:14 PM): OK, see you in about 10 minutes
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:21 PM): nice talking to you
mybrotherisdu (6:45:23 PM): Oh, we'll be doing more than just talking when you get here
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:26 PM): bye
mybrotherisdu (6:45:34 PM): Well I'll see you soon. P.S.: I'm naked and horny!
XXXXXXXXXX signed off at 6:45:36 PM

I edited it to what it should have been like.

Coleman · Post by **Coleman** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:14 pm

SnakeySnakey wrote:mybrotherisdu (6:28:38 PM): What's up, this is Nick from trig class.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:02 PM): oh heyy nick!
mybrotherisdu (6:30:11 PM): Need any help with math?
mybrotherisdu (6:30:19 PM): Or anything else?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:54 PM): nah i get it now
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:59 PM): thx to you
XXXXXXXXXX (6:31:02 PM): =)
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): How was your day?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:35:56 PM): it was good
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:00 PM): for a monday atl east
mybrotherisdu (6:45:03 PM): Hey, well btw I passed my driving test today and I'm going to get a car this weekend.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:13 PM): heyy i gtg
mybrotherisdu (6:45:14 PM): In case you ever need a ride somewhere.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:21 PM): nice talking to you
mybrotherisdu (6:45:23 PM): Oh.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:26 PM): bye
mybrotherisdu (6:45:34 PM): Well I'll see you 7th period tomorrow!
XXXXXXXXXX signed off at 6:45:36 PM

This still isn't great, but I took out your biggest mistake in that conversation.

suggs · Post by **suggs** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:14 pm

Snorri1234 · Post by **Snorri1234** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:17 pm

wcaclimbing wrote:i think you pulled a 3, maybe a 4 there....

You were trying way too hard...

Yes. The beginning was good, but the latter bits were painfull. Just take a little more time, don't be desperate.

dinobot · Post by **dinobot** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:52 pm

You get a negative five. Shite, you sounded like some creepy virgin who's never going to have sex (which may be the case). It's pretty obvious you're only thinking about yourself, otherwise you wouldn't be trying to manipulate her into feeling sorry for you. Seriously, it's guys like you who act super nice in order to make up for your horrible social skills and then wonder why you don't get girls. Only go for it if a woman you like shows interest in you first and get her to show interest in you by being a cool person to talk to. Acting desperate and lonely might get some poor woman to pity you, but eventually they'll find out what a selfish and horrible person you are.

nagerous · Post by **nagerous** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:24 pm

SnakeySnakey wrote:I got her screen name today under the pretext of helping her with trigonometry and I decided to give it a shot since she's breaking up with her boyfriend soon.

mybrotherisdu (6:28:38 PM): What's up, this is Nick from trig class.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:02 PM): oh heyy nick!
mybrotherisdu (6:30:11 PM): Need any help with math?
mybrotherisdu (6:30:19 PM): Or anything else?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:54 PM): nah i get it now
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:59 PM): thx to you
XXXXXXXXXX (6:31:02 PM): =)
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): How was your day?
mybrotherisdu (6:35:47 PM): Please respond.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:35:56 PM): it was good
mybrotherisdu (6:36:56 PM): Is your internet lagging?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:00 PM): for a monday atl east
mybrotherisdu (6:37:02 PM): I can help you fix that.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:39 PM): no im just a lil busy atm
mybrotherisdu (6:37:50 PM): Oh, sorry.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:12 PM): lol nah its ok
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:18 PM): nothing major
mybrotherisdu (6:38:26 PM): Oh.
mybrotherisdu (6:45:03 PM): Hey, well btw I passed my driving test today and I'm going to get a car this weekend.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:13 PM): heyy i gtg
mybrotherisdu (6:45:14 PM): In case you ever need a ride somewhere.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:21 PM): nice talking to you
mybrotherisdu (6:45:23 PM): Oh.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:26 PM): bye
mybrotherisdu (6:45:34 PM): Well I'll see you 7th period tomorrow!
XXXXXXXXXX signed off at 6:45:36 PM

Some parts were good like when she "haha"'d at me and thanked me, but at other parts I felt really shaky and awkward. How was it/10?

Haha, the bit where you said please respond made me cringe. As did the bit about needing a ride and the bit about the internet lagging and you offering to fix it. In all honesty I don't think she sounded interested but I am renowned for my pessimism and I don't know the full situation, just going from that convo. Just take it easy, don't be so forward, things will flow better. Or move on, if other conversations end up like this one and look for girls who don't perhaps have boyfriends and who may be more in your league (once again I don't know I'm just guessing from the style of the conversation).

dcowboys055 · Post by **dcowboys055** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:33 pm

Lucky Se7en wrote:You're in

Anarkistsdream · Post by **Anarkistsdream** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:34 pm

kwanton wrote:AIM=bad

If you really like her try having conversations face to face instead of on aim. This is just my experience as I'm much more awkward thru the internets than face to face. May just be me tho....

Amen.

apey · Post by **apey** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:35 pm

AD if I had AIM would you talk to me like that

Anarkistsdream · Post by **Anarkistsdream** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:37 pm

apey wrote:AD if I had AIM would you talk to me like that

Hahaha... I don't use IM programs... But if I did, it would definitely be so we could cyber.

Hanul · Post by **Hanul** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:37 pm

I'd give you a 4-5/10

Part of it was decent, but around the mid when you asked her to respond, well you sounded a little needy. You should never rush things.

apey · Post by **apey** » Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:39 pm

Anarkistsdream wrote:
apey wrote:AD if I had AIM would you talk to me like that

Hahaha... I don't use IM programs... But if I did, it would definitely be so we could cyber.

neither do I wanna pm j/k :lol:

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