captain.crazy wrote:That is what I read from you here... You are suggesting that the vast majority of teen pregnancies come from people being taught abstinence, rather than from people ignoring the suggestions of birth control.
Yes. The suggestions of birth control are so amazingly bad in the US that it causes loads of preventable teen pregnancies. If people believe you can't get pregnant the first time, or that using two condoms at the same time is double-safe, or that you can't get pregnant when you have sex standing up, or that you can't get an std from oral sex, or basically all other myths, then somewhere along the way something went terribly wrong.
I think that we need to be open to our kids, talk straight with them about sex, warn them about the spreading of STD's, as well as pregnancies. We Also need to be open with them about the emotional baggage that comes from having sex at too early an age.
This is true, but what is really important is that you realize they are going to have sex and prepare them for it. Teach them to be responsible about sex, and that they should be confident and ready and not be pressured into it.
If they fail to maintain abstinence, and end up pregnant as a result, then they should be counseled to avoid the moral atrocity of abortion and display the disciplined responsibility that comes with being a parent.
You cannot set abstinence as your goal. It would be great if kids would wait longer to have sex, but sooner or later they will so all you can do is educate them about how to avoid pregancy and diseases. You should teach them responsiblity for their actions before they have sex or get pregnant, not after.
I do not condone abortion... snorri, I would not even wish that you had been aborted.
It's not a matter of condoning. You can hold your view and I hold mine. But you should back up any legislation in teaching which will reduce the number of pregnancies and abortions. To do not would contradict your view on abortions.