Beastly wrote:OH and make sure your drinking.
Prove me wrong!
good luck!
Well see if your girlfriend starts to suspect something when, you are late for some dumb reason. Like I stated, something innocent even can make a person think or wonder....
do it I dare you! make sure you at least talk on the phone every night.
ANd what the hell is a girl doing going and meeting strangers off the internet. Within 2 days of this thread being made??? wow! impressive how wrong i am. NOW see the sarcasm..
And going to the home even.
I wouldn't recommend for any young girls that are reading this, to go meet strangers off the internet.
I certainly wouldn't show up at someone's house...
Hmmm do young college girls really do that?
Also, since you all are being so unkind because I have a opinion different then yours I have more to say!
If you read my posts, I was very clear and concise.... I said things MAY happen....
I told you what things MAY happen...
Proving my beliefs wrong or right, does not make you all knowing..
YOU have to be open to all situations.
And me saying that you can strain your relationship is a FACT!
and I also said it is good to have boundaries in a Relationship, and those boundaries will differ with any relationship,.
IF your girlfriend thinks it okay for you to meet other women off the internet and then go meet them, then I guess she is not knowing of the possibilities or risks she is taking by agreeing..
Also know that this person who made this thread, could make up lies,...
Remember, he is pissed because I thought it was wrong to sneak behind his girlfriends back....
Plus if he is the kind of person who does this, what else will he do? It shows his character.
I'll respond in the order that you made your comments.
I don't drink, and I don't need luck.
Why do you want me to prove you're wrong so badly?
Ohh, and if I'm ever late, I'm sure my girlfriend would understand, because I don't lie. And even if I did do something stupid, I'd tell her about it anyways.
"Do it I dare you!" Do what? Stay friends? Uhmm... Okay! And make sure I'm on the phone with her every night? Okay, settle down. I talk to her whenever she signs on MSN, which is fine enough. I'm not a stalker. Yeesh.
"And what the hell is a girl doing meeting strangers off the internet?" Well, first of all, we talked alot, and got to know eachother first.
"Within two days of this thread being made"? Uhmmm... Hello? We've know eachother for quite some time. Not to mention we've hung out already before that instance she came over. Remember that part? It wasn't the first time we've met. I didn't start this thread right after I met her, nor did I ever imply or say that.
An no, there is no sarcasm to be seen.
"And going to the home even." Uhmm... What? So, meeting outside of home hanging out around town is conniving and sneaky to you, but meeting at my residence, with my girlfriend and others there, is somehow... What, exactly?
"I certainly wouldn't show up at someone's house..."
Hmmm do young college girls really do that?" Excuse me? Don't, not even for one moment, even dare to judge her character in any way. She knew me, and was briefly over at my house before. Which I ALREADY stated in the original post. Remember? We played video games? Or did you assume we played gameboys while walking down the street?
"YOU have to be open to all situations." Correct! That's why I haven't razed your barn, as you have to others. And don't think I've discredited your opinion, ever. Beneath the muck and instigation you DO make some good points. And I've considered them greatly. But please try to heed your own advice and try to be open to others as well!
Example of good advice from Beastly:
"and I also said it is good to have boundaries in a Relationship, and those boundaries will differ with any relationship,."
"IF your girlfriend thinks it okay for you to meet other women off the internet and then go meet them, then I guess she is not knowing of the possibilities or risks she is taking by agreeing.."
Please, don't you dare bring anyone I know into this discussion. We've been together almost four years. And, like I stated in my update, she was aware of the many female friends I had in my old city, and that was when we were long-distance for two years.
"Also know that this person who made this thread, could make up lies,..."
Drats! You caught me! I'm going through this debacle all for shits and giggles! I'm not really even in any problem! Actually, I'm 37, live in my mom's basement, have never kissed a girl before, and have dreamt up this story to get the attention I crave from living a neglected-from-society life!
Actually, that's a lie. I'm not even really human! I'm actually a horse!
Anyways...
"Remember, he is pissed because I thought it was wrong to sneak behind his girlfriends back...." Wow, I barely remember implying or even saying that!
"Plus if he is the kind of person who does this, what else will he do? It shows his character" Well, I don't even know how to react to your hypocritical, loathing statements anymore.
It seems to me that part of you is hurt because you MAY have been slightly over-ambitious in some statements. And now you're searching for new areas to argue or debate over. You defaced and brought into the discussion both my friend and my girlfriend (Not to mention my trustworthiness) for absolutely nothing.
Have you ever self evaluated yourself? Literally thought "Hmmm, perhaps I MAY have been just slightly mistaken, and that wasn't a good thing to mention."
Humans have this ability to want to help others, search for the truth, and especially to learn from their mistakes.
Perhaps I am not the the Horse afterall.
