salvadevinemasse wrote:1) you tell someone you were in a car accident that month and instead of asking if your okay they tell you everything wrong with them and don't even seem to care you were in an accident?
Actually, the first thing I asked was if you were okay.
salvadevinemasse wrote:2) When talking to you they say their ex tried to kill them, then while talking to your b/f explain something totally different then what they explained to you.
I told you the exact same thing I told him. That Brandon really scared me, and that I thought he was going to kill me right there. Unreasonable thought, I know, but still. I told you that, in those words, just like I told VT.
salvadevinemasse wrote:3) they ask you to call your b/f to get him online because they miss him..
Tells you your online hugs aren't like his..
or calls him alot on the phone and cries talking to him alot because of an ex(brandon)
No...you told me that I could call him, and ask him to come on, and I said that you could do it, because I didn't feel right about it. When did I ever say that your online hugs aren't like his? And yes, I called him a fair amount. He also called me. I needed someone to talk to, and he was always there for me. Since when does that mean that I'm trying to steal him from you?
salvadevinemasse wrote:4) was on/off trying to get your b/f to come up to their state not ever really saying at first that your invited so he always has to say i'll come if my g/f can come too and she says okay but never really seems to like the idea of you there from the tone of voice
Okay, I never, ever seriously invited him up here. We joked about it, and he brought it up first. I always said you were welcome, which you were. I dunno about my tone of voice, but you and him were always welcome here, if we were serious. Which we weren't, so I really don't know where you got the idea that we were.
salvadevinemasse wrote:5) Almost always has you jealous because they flirt constantly with your b/f
First of all, I asked you repeatedly if it bothered you, and you always said no, that it was fine, you trusted him and knew that he loved only you. Second of all, I flirt with everyone...well, almost everyone. Besides, I'm across the country from you. How on earth could I steal him from you?
salvadevinemasse wrote:6) They basically stop talking to you unless YOU IM THEM... Yet your b/f goes online and boom they are the first window that pops up every time
Yeah, I pretty much stopped talking to you. I'll admit it. I wasn't really paying attention to who I was talking to. There are a lot of people on my messenger list I almost never talk to, no matter how much they are on. Yet they never take offense at it like you did.
salvadevinemasse wrote:7) Always makes it clear they are talking to your b/f when you are if your talking to them
Erm...I don't really get it...WHat is your point?
*tilts head to one side* Yes...I assumed something. I don't see how that offends you, most people who feel as threatened as you do by me ask their significant other to not talk to them. Obviously, you are above that. I guess I'm sorry that I offended you, it was not my intention. Nor did I ever ask why he was with you. He is, he's happy, you are happy with him. How is it my business at all why he cares for you?salvadevinemasse wrote:in the end of things the next day to add insult to injury she told my b/f she figured that meant they couldn't be friends because in her way of thinking i was going to basically take him away from her... (Sorry Kat, I trust my b/f.. I don't trust you anymore and i never will... But I trust and love him with all my heart.) It'll be a year and a half for us and as he said once to me you don't have to understand why he's with me, he loves me and thats all that matters.
Also, I explained to you very carefully about the call that started this whole silly fight. Brandon scared me. I called VT. I called him at 3:50 on June 21, the call lasted for 4 minutes and 56 seconds. Before that call, the last time I talked to him was on May 15th at 6:16. I told you I was having minute problems, which I was. The actual 4 minute call was shorter then I expected, hence the reason I didn't say hi. You said you were sitting right there, so you should have heard exactly what our conversation was that day.
Second of all, I never said no I didn't want to talk to you. I always talked to you when he offered, with the exception of when I got the look of death from my mother (when she threatens to take my phone away if I don't get off it). I got that when I was just talking to him, and when I was just talking to you. Its no different between the two of you.
Once again, I'm sorry I hurt your feelings.
But please, let me write a few SHORT posts so that you could be up-to-date. 
tells you...better yet I saved the IM why dont you guys see yourself.. As you can see I'm trying to talk things out and she doesnt seem to understand/ care at all in the end of things...
(And I really wanted to post that prophetic stuff about your return. 
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