Bunny Boilers

[Dukasaur]

Have you ever had to deal with a real bunny boiler? How did you extricate yourself?

[mookiemcgee]

if anyone is unfamiliar bunny boiler = all women ever

Duk, here are some options:
Be re-vengful and get her back doing whatever she did to you (i know you are too nice for this)
Move, preferably out of province, also change phone numbers and block her from your Onlyfans!
Find her a new target... have a handsome friend who's wealthier and a few years younger than you? (cough *saxi* cough)
start dating someone even more dangerous and protective, and explain the situation to her.

[riskllama]

actually, i heard from a reliable source that saxi kinda sorta resembles grown up Stewie from Family Guy. soo...maybe find someone more attractive...

[jusplay4fun]

Well, I guess I should be happy that this was NOT in my vocabulary.

The expression 'Bunny Boiler' derives from the 1987 film Fatal Attraction, written by James Dearden and Nicholas Meyer. The plot centres around Alex Forrest (Glenn Close) obsessively pursuing her ex-lover Dan Gallagher (Michael Douglas).

https://www.prospectus.co.uk/blog/2013/06/bunny-boiler-v-interested-and-enthusiastic

Definition:
a woman who acts vengefully after having been spurned by her lover.
Definitions from Oxford Languages

[Dukasaur]

Well, I guess I should be happy that this was NOT in my vocabulary.

The expression 'Bunny Boiler' derives from the 1987 film Fatal Attraction, written by James Dearden and Nicholas Meyer. The plot centres around Alex Forrest (Glenn Close) obsessively pursuing her ex-lover Dan Gallagher (Michael Douglas).

https://www.prospectus.co.uk/blog/2013/06/bunny-boiler-v-interested-and-enthusiastic

Definition:
a woman who acts vengefully after having been spurned by her lover.
Definitions from Oxford Languages

[KoolBak]

Soooo many variables and questions

You're too old for this shit!!

Was it worth it?? Pix?? Lol

Be strong; rude, and ideally have a new chick that's an MMA fighter on your arm.

Always carry flaming bags of dog poop as defense.

Good luck!

PS... never heard the term, but dealt with the psychos that couldn't stay away as a young man many times. Sucks to be soooo hot, DoD

[2dimes]

Carrying the flaming sacs of dog dirt is probably hundreds of times easier than, finding an MMA lady that is not a double bagger/lights out situation.

Also as Mookie points out, the risk of her being the next psycho chick is way too high.

[DirtyDishSoap]

So you dated a psycho? Guess when I say "don't date strippers," you guys go ahead and do the exact opposite.

Anyways, this is what I did.

Blocked her number. When she started harassing me at my own apartment IE: Parking next to my car, waiting for me to leave, I called the cops and then got a restraining order.
Then I moved to a completely different area afterwards.
Did this stop her though? Nope. She started having her friends contact me, or reaching out to my Dad to see what I was doing.
Since I blocked all of her friends numbers, she now just emails me about every other month, usually about 7 of them back to back about some drivel of her mental state.

I can accept the emails at least, rarely check em so no big loss.

Moral of the story though: Don't feed the fire, don't give them ammo. Let them dig themselves into a hole.

Edit - No kids involved, she's just bat shit crazy.

[jonesthecurl]

A guy I worked with was the male equivalent.
One day he told me 'I think I'm gonna dump my girlfriend.'
I asked him 'Why's that?'
He said 'That's the third time she's moved without giving me the new address'.

[Dukasaur]

A guy I worked with was the male equivalent.
One day he told me 'I think I'm gonna dump my girlfriend.'
I asked him 'Why's that?'
He said 'That's the third time she's moved without giving me the new address'.

[bigtoughralf]

Bunny boiler is a bit of a loaded term. If people could be careful not to let this thread venture into sexism and misogyny then that’d be great.

[KoolBak]

Wow, new guy.

Way to jump right in and make a complete ass of yourself. Well played.

[DirtyDishSoap]

Bunny boiler is a bit of a loaded term. If people could be careful not to let this thread venture into sexism and misogyny then that’d be great.

Shutup and make me a sandwich.

[mookiemcgee]

Bunny boiler is a bit of a loaded term. If people could be careful not to let this thread venture into sexism and misogyny then that’d be great.

[DirtyDishSoap]

Bunny boiler is a bit of a loaded term. If people could be careful not to let this thread venture into sexism and misogyny then that’d be great.

[TeeGee]

So you dated a psycho? Guess when I say "don't date strippers," you guys go ahead and do the exact opposite.

Anyways, this is what I did.

Blocked her number. When she started harassing me at my own apartment IE: Parking next to my car, waiting for me to leave, I called the cops and then got a restraining order.
Then I moved to a completely different area afterwards.
Did this stop her though? Nope. She started having her friends contact me, or reaching out to my Dad to see what I was doing.
Since I blocked all of her friends numbers, she now just emails me about every other month, usually about 7 of them back to back about some drivel of her mental state.

I can accept the emails at least, rarely check em so no big loss.

Moral of the story though: Don't feed the fire, don't give them ammo. Let them dig themselves into a hole.

Edit - No kids involved, she's just bat shit crazy.

We did try and warn you not to date wicked

[KoolBak]

Oh man....that was gold. Thank you

They were actually geographically compatible

[2dimes]

Why'd it not work out? Were their Chinese horoscope animals not compatible?

[DirtyDishSoap]

Because i didn't want to be stabbed in my sleep by some lunatic.

[2dimes]

YOLO

[jonesthecurl]

I live in Yolo county. Which makes my daughter chuckle.

[jusplay4fun]

Bunny boiler is a bit of a loaded term. If people could be careful not to let this thread venture into sexism and misogyny then that’d be great.

Mookie, to be honest, she is not a real blonde, dumb as dirt, and not very pretty. You have to DO BETTER. I am frankly disappointed...LoL...!