warmonger1981 wrote:You do know that school is not teaching but for molding children into social structures. If you thinking hat kids don't pick up habits at school that you may find disturbing you're fooling yourself. Any thoughts on transgender bathrooms in schools soon. Is this not sexualizing children? May I suggest a book its an easy read. " Dumbing Us Down" by John Taylor Grotto.
Do you know that I am actually a parent to my kids and that schools have less of an influence over my kids than I do? Do you know that I want to public school and somehow didn't develop the ideologies that you probably deem problematic? Will kids pick up habits at school from the education system or teachers that I will find disturbing? Probably not; and if they do, I have the wherewithal to counteract those habits. That is my primary point. Based upon anecdotal evidence, kids are going to be influenced by some combination of media (or culture if you like), religion (or lack thereof), parents, peers, and organizations (like schools, scouts, sports teams, etc.). If parents want to avoid a situation where one of these factors has an influence, the parent has the ability to do that. If my kids' school starts to teach that free speech is a fallacy, I will ensure that my kids do not believe that (or that they will at least be skeptical). If I can't do that, I'm a failure as a parent. Further, not allowing children to experience any ideas or organization that are antithetical to their world view (or their parents' world view) is largely harmful. Good parenting is letting your kids be exposed and help them understand how to deal with it.
Just a point of clarification... there won't be transgender bathrooms. There will be the ability for transgenders to use the bathroom of their choice, not a separate bathroom for just transgender folks. In any event, does that bother me relative to my children? No, for a few different reasons. First, the concern that transgenders using whatever bathroom they like will lead to child abuse, rape, etc. is completely misguided and wrong. There is no evidence, at all, that this will occur or that these types of abuses will be any worse (or better). This is purely fiction used to justify discrimination; kind of like saying "if you let black men use the same bathroom is white men, bad things will happen." Second, and perhaps you don't realize this, bathroom usage is the least concerning item affecting the sexualization of kids. When I was in school, we didn't have transgender bathrooms and most of my friends had sex by the time they were in seventh grade. Again, this is a completely ridiculous assertion with no basis in fact.
Do you have any thoughts on transgender bathrooms in schools soon?
Also, I don't read nonfiction books, but thanks for the recommendation in any event.