mrswdk wrote:jimboston wrote:
1) 25qty. is not a statistically significant number.
It's an interesting finding worthy of discussion.
How is it worthy of discussion if it's not statistically significant?
mrswdk wrote:jimboston wrote:2) I'm not going to download a study promoting pedophilia to my computer.
It's not promoting anything.
Hmmm... the summary you posted said that pedophilia was "experienced in predominately positive terms".
That sounds like a promotion to me. You can believe it's not promoting that sick act, if you truly believe the study was scientifically sound and non-biased. I don't believe it was non-biased; and I know it wasn't scientifically sound (as noted above).
mrswdk wrote:jimboston wrote:3) There are endless studies documenting the inability of minors to make rational decisions... even past the age of 18yo for some people. Young people are less able to factor in long term problems, and only look at short term benefits. As such they are much more easily led to decisions that will have adverse affects. If you allow pedophilia to be legal if both people consent, you open the door to significant abuse by pedophiliacs (i.e. freaks) to trick minors with favors and incentives.
You might as well argue that by permitting women to go to nightclubs and drink alcohol you are opening the door to abuse by date rapists.
Actually this was going to be my counter-point to your believe that pedophilia is fine and minors can make sound decisions about consensual sex. In other words... if you think minors are fully capable of making those decisions, then you must also believe that people all messed up on drugs and alcohol are also fully capable of said decisions.
So what Bill Cosby did to those 50+ women is fine, because after they got Rufied,they were happy to just go along with whatever Bill wanted?
Date rape (which is quite different than what Cosby did) is a tricky one. As it's possible that either or both partners might be intoxicated to some degree.
Oh... and BTW, you are an obvious sexist. You saw that by "permitting women to go to nightclubs"... so you are assuming it's drunk women who are being taken advantage of by sober men??? Is it not equally possible that drunk men might be taken advantage of by sober women?
mrswdk wrote:jimboston wrote:4) How would you factor in the rights of parents (guardians) to make decisions for minors? I make all kinds of decisions for my kids every day. If they can make this decision on their own... should they not also be able to make other decisions on their own???
(In which case my kids would eat only candy, skip school frequently, and never leave the computer.)
Do what you want with your kids. Just because something's legal doesn't mean you have to stop parenting them.
So then minors couldn't consent? The parents would have to first say it's "OK" for them to consent?
I'm confused. You seem to be contradicting yourself.
Some pedophile (i.e freak) finds a kid attractive... does he/she go to the kid for consent or the parent/guardian?
If you are going to say pedophilia is OK, then you need to explain how it would actually work.
mrswdk wrote:jimboston wrote:5) If you do allow parents (guardians) to make decisions allowing minors to engage with pedophiles... do you not see a whole new world of abuse that will potentially occur, with some people "pimping out" their kids???
No, legalizing consensual sexual relationships between children and adults is not some sort of gateway to parents getting away with inviting people to come over and rape their kids. I don't understand how you have reached the conclusion that it would be.
We would be allowing children to decide for themselves whether or not they want to have sex, not allowing their parents to decide on their behalf.
I didn't reach that conclusion. I am trying to get you to explain how consent would actually work in this New World you propose.
So above you say parents can "do what they want" with their kids... and that we shouldn't "stop parenting" them.
Now you say that the kids "would decide for themselves whether or not they want to have sex, not allowing their parents to decide on their behalf." Is this not a conflict?
... or does a Pedophile (i.e. sicko) need to get both parental approval, and consent from the child???
How does it work?
Do you think any sane parent would actually consent to this?
Would you let some freak f*ck your kid?
mrswdk wrote:jimboston wrote:6) I can't believe I am wasting my time arguing with you about this. It's ridiculous and sick.
People used to say the same thing about homosexuality, and look which side of history they've ended up on.
You are again equating Homosexuality with Pedophilia... and not recognizing or admitting any difference.
Homosexuality between two CONSENTING ADULTS... is NOT... equivalent to Pedophilia; an act between an adult and a child, where science has PROVEN that children are not fully capable of making decisions on their own.
If children were capable of making decisions, then they would not need parents. Modern society now will substitute parents with legal guardians... but in evolutionary terms, children without parent die. We as a species have evolved to require support for many years... at the very least into the teenage years. Evolutionary speaking, children can't make decisions.