Commander62890 wrote:Hey, Chuck, don't the brackets show up for you when you look at games? In other words: Commander9 [FOED]... not: Commander62890 [THOTA]
I think it's best if we don't try to figure out who this leader is... let's just focus on the poll and the question thrown out by Duke.
I voted "No." It's okay if a leader lets his clan member know that he has beef with this player, and it's all right for him to strongly recommend that the clan member stay off of this player's team. However, I think it's going overboard to threaten expulsion from the clan.
Though A clan leader should have the right to kick his member out for doing such a thing, I believe it's bad form and should be looked down upon.
you really should know when things are scripts or actually part of the site
Commander62890 wrote:I know it's a script, but I figured Chuuuuck probably has most of them.
I would guess that most people don't use every script...when i use all of them it just makes things slower which annoys me so i only use a few scripts.
karelpietertje wrote:I see no problem. Your friend has the choice of leaving the clan whenever he/she feels like the conditions to being in it aren't fun anymore.
But why should they have to leave the clan? What if they still enjoy playing with the others in the group, people they like and consider friends...do you think they should be forced out because of who they play with in public games?
While I do think it's stupid for that other clan leader to make that requirement, I find myself in agreement with karelpietertje...whether the individual chooses to stay in the clan or not INCLUDES the choice of whether they are satisfied with following those dictates or not. They know the requirements of the clan...so they must choose.
...I prefer a man who will burn the flag and then wrap himself in the Constitution to a man who will burn the Constitution and then wrap himself in the flag.
Hmmmmmmmm damn pirates are always throwing their weight around. I would strongly tell your "friend" to walk the plank, get off the ship, and swim over to a clan where she could be a real member and not an underling!
Great-Ollie wrote:Hmmmmmmmm damn pirates are always throwing their weight around. I would strongly tell your "friend" to walk the plank, get off the ship, and swim over to a clan where she could be a real member and not an underling!
Dang it man... you almost let the cat outa the bag... Zip that sucker up and keep quiet.. lol
i barely like anyone in my clan as it is, so i could care less who they played with... as long as they stay sexy they can do whatever they want...-the black jesus
Thorthoth,"Cloaking one's C&A fetish with moral authority and righteous indignation makes it ever so much more erotically thrilling"
A clanleader should be able to let people not playing with other people only if all the clan members know about it and agree. If this issue is very important for the clanleader he must inform new members about it the very seconds they're in the clan. If not, to bad for the clanleader, but he can't blame anyone then.
My personal thoughts if i would be a clanleader:
first of all i would make a clanrules topic in forum so everyone would know about it when they join the clan. I never would forbid my clanmembers to play against or with someone. (CC is a game and games are used to have some fun. Otherwise you better step into politics) If there were any issues between my clan and another clan, i would try to solve it. (asking a 3rd group if i couldn't succeed) If there were any issues between a clanmember and another one (same or different clan) i would try to be a great diplomat and solve it out. If i had a personal issue with someone, i would not use my clanleader position to make a big fuzz about it. i would just keep it personal and maybe time heals the hurts.
My personal thought if i would be a member who got been dictated by clanleader:
1.If they just told me without being forceful or rude: -i could have to make the choice to listen and stay in the clan. -i could prefer to play with anyone i like and leave the clan. 2.If they are really dictating me so i wouldn't feel comfortable with: -or i quit the clan instantly -or i would have a serious talk with the clanleader ASAP (but not that very moment)
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owenshooter wrote:i barely like anyone in my clan as it is, so i could care less who they played with... as long as they stay sexy they can do whatever they want...-the black jesus
barely like ?.So that actually means you still like them lol...barely!
Commander62890 wrote:Hey, Chuck, don't the brackets show up for you when you look at games? In other words: Commander9 [FOED]... not: Commander62890 [THOTA]
I think it's best if we don't try to figure out who this leader is... let's just focus on the poll and the question thrown out by Duke.
I voted "No." It's okay if a leader lets his clan member know that he has beef with this player, and it's all right for him to strongly recommend that the clan member stay off of this player's team. However, I think it's going overboard to threaten expulsion from the clan.
Though A clan leader should have the right to kick his member out for doing such a thing, I believe it's bad form and should be looked down upon.
you really should know when things are scripts or actually part of the site
I have the script. Just didn't have it on the computer I was on when writing in the forum. Once again, my mistake
Alright...enuf boys.....dazer...grab duke and i will grab LMS and we be in doubles happy land and if y'all want to continue the fued it will be without us.....FINITO!
MegasWoman wrote:Alright...enuf boys.....dazer...grab duke and i will grab LMS and we be in doubles happy land and if y'all want to continue the fued it will be without us.....FINITO!
MegasWoman wrote:Alright...enuf boys.....dazer...grab duke and i will grab LMS and we be in doubles happy land and if y'all want to continue the fued it will be without us.....FINITO!
You're right Megas.....
Enough is enough. Neither Megas or I were part of this battle and somehow we were BOTH dragged into this. You guys are allowed to play with whomever you choose, as am I. If my clan leaders feel so strongly about whom I play with that they want to kick me out, then so be it.
I love you Bogan. I love you GallantPellham.
Duke, setup a game.
How much you want for Daze? (Culs De Sac on Wed Oct 12, 2011 7:33 pm) She's priceless, Culs. ;-P (MudPuppy on Wed Oct 12, 2011 7:46 pm)
Dictators have been revolted against since the beginning of time. We live in a Democracy in the USA. Clan Leaders are not dictators however. They have put a lot of time and effort into the clans they lead. It is strictly voluntary whether or not to participate in a particular clan. The reason I respect and admire the Brotherhood of the Fat Mermaid is not because the leaders are dictators I assure you. It is all about having fun and knowing so many different people from all over the world is part of the fun. Thats my humble opinion.
Master Fenrir wrote:This all started because I told Duke he couldn't play games with me anymore. It's like a bad episode of "When Man-Crushes Go Wrong."
Yeah, I don't know what I would ever do without my danrayn time.
Master Fenrir wrote:This all started because I told Duke he couldn't play games with me anymore. It's like a bad episode of "When Man-Crushes Go Wrong."
Yeah, I don't know what I would ever do without my danrayn time.
That would suck. I don't know about you, but I'd probably take a syringe full of estrogen and then start a really dramatic thread about it.
Woah hey waoh!!!! Duke.... it's one thing to wanna play a games with ME.... buuuut ya gunna hafta back up off Fen or we gunna have a few choice words exchanged that you might just not like. lol
And in the words of a very wise pirate sister:
EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
How much you want for Daze? (Culs De Sac on Wed Oct 12, 2011 7:33 pm) She's priceless, Culs. ;-P (MudPuppy on Wed Oct 12, 2011 7:46 pm)
MegasWoman wrote:Alright...enuf boys.....dazer...grab duke and i will grab LMS and we be in doubles happy land and if y'all want to continue the fued it will be without us.....FINITO!
ENOUGH chatting already.....................commence with the grabbing! I'm all for a little trips too, if you both wanna do some grabbing at the same time. It'll be fun. Promise.
“One of God's own prototypes.....never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die.”
Master Fenrir wrote:This all started because I told Duke he couldn't play games with me anymore. It's like a bad episode of "When Man-Crushes Go Wrong."
Yeah, I don't know what I would ever do without my danrayn time.
That would suck. I don't know about you, but I'd probably take a syringe full of estrogen and then start a really dramatic thread about it.
So THAAAAATS what happened! Dang Duke.... I knew you had a murse (which you leave your "A Game" in), that you adore your fanny pack and that you keep your pride on the shelf next to your tampons but c'mon... estrogen injections!!! Well shit no wonder you go Emo every now and again! You gotta cut that shit out!
How much you want for Daze? (Culs De Sac on Wed Oct 12, 2011 7:33 pm) She's priceless, Culs. ;-P (MudPuppy on Wed Oct 12, 2011 7:46 pm)