I don't think it was the complaint that made her delete the post. It sounds like it was a borderline remove/don't remove issue, that she thought might be a flame, and since she got a complaint about it, that tipped the issue.
I don't know of the post/thread in question, but I'm posting my opinion anyway, in the interest of free speech.
Now now Jay, I know your first post wasn't edited by a Mod. You just wrote that in there. I'm not exactly sure what purpose this topic now serves, so I'll consider it spam.