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I just had my first AIM conversation with a girl I like
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:57 pmby SnakeySnakey
I got her screen name today under the pretext of helping her with trigonometry and I decided to give it a shot since she's breaking up with her boyfriend soon.
mybrotherisdu (6:28:38 PM): What's up, this is Nick from trig class.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:02 PM): oh heyy nick!
mybrotherisdu (6:30:11 PM): Need any help with math?
mybrotherisdu (6:30:19 PM): Or anything else?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:54 PM): nah i get it now
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:59 PM): thx to you
XXXXXXXXXX (6:31:02 PM): =)
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): How was your day?
mybrotherisdu (6:35:47 PM): Please respond.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:35:56 PM): it was good
mybrotherisdu (6:36:56 PM): Is your internet lagging?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:00 PM): for a monday atl east
mybrotherisdu (6:37:02 PM): I can help you fix that.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:39 PM): no im just a lil busy atm
mybrotherisdu (6:37:50 PM): Oh, sorry.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:12 PM): lol nah its ok
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:18 PM): nothing major
mybrotherisdu (6:38:26 PM): Oh.
mybrotherisdu (6:45:03 PM): Hey, well btw I passed my driving test today and I'm going to get a car this weekend.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:13 PM): heyy i gtg
mybrotherisdu (6:45:14 PM): In case you ever need a ride somewhere.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:21 PM): nice talking to you
mybrotherisdu (6:45:23 PM): Oh.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:26 PM): bye
mybrotherisdu (6:45:34 PM): Well I'll see you 7th period tomorrow!
XXXXXXXXXX signed off at 6:45:36 PM
Some parts were good like when she "haha"'d at me and thanked me, but at other parts I felt really shaky and awkward. How was it/10?
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:57 pmby got tonkaed
7 or 8...you guys should be dating within a week.
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:58 pmby Lucky Se7en
You're in
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:59 pmby wcaclimbing
i think you pulled a 3, maybe a 4 there....
You were trying way too hard...
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:59 pmby btownmeggy
Oh dear.
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:00 pmby riggable
jeez soooo awkward, hahahaha I've always been kinda smooth on AIM(which differs quite a bit from real life)
My first girlfriend I talked to permanently on AIM for a good half year before we met up and subsequently started dating.
Also there was this girl from another state who was a friend of a friend who I talked to Only on AIM for a year or so and then she told me she was in love with me(wicked creapy, mmhmm)
I'd give you like a 3/10 on that, she kinda really shut you down, although she did seem grateful for your math help.
Try again tommorow, i guess.
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:02 pmby riggable
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): How was your day?
mybrotherisdu (6:35:47 PM): Please respond.
don't EVER do that again ^, that really made me cringe.
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
^that was good, do more of that.
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:02 pmby Coleman
You are either significantly above the friend zone to the point she is flustered around you or you don't even qualify for that. I can't tell.
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:03 pmby Harijan
btownmeggy wrote:Oh dear.
/agree
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:04 pmby Risktaker17
yeah tell her about CC that'll get her. Yeah and if she stops talking you can ease back to the convo, don't just say HELLO HELLO YOU THERE!
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:04 pmby Grooveman2007
Pretty awkward, you might be able to recover though, just play it cool and don't be so pushy next time. Best of luck.
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:08 pmby kwanton
AIM=bad
If you really like her try having conversations face to face instead of on aim. This is just my experience as I'm much more awkward thru the internets than face to face. May just be me tho....
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:10 pmby suggs
Has she sucked you off yet?
Its what love means.
Re: I just had my first AIM conversation with a girl I like
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:11 pmby misterman10
SnakeySnakey wrote:mybrotherisdu (6:28:38 PM): What's up, this is Nick from trig class.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:02 PM): oh heyy nick!
mybrotherisdu (6:30:11 PM): Need any help with math?
mybrotherisdu (6:30:19 PM): Or getting an orgasm?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:54 PM): nah i get it now
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:59 PM): thx to you
XXXXXXXXXX (6:31:02 PM): =)
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): Are your parents home?
mybrotherisdu (6:35:47 PM): Please respond. I'm fucking horny right now.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:35:56 PM): Oh really?
mybrotherisdu (6:36:56 PM): Is your internet lagging? We can chat in person then.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:00 PM): for a monday atl east
mybrotherisdu (6:37:02 PM): Today's not monday Fucker. It's Thursday
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:39 PM): no im just a lil busy atm
mybrotherisdu (6:37:50 PM): I'll come over and help then
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:12 PM): lol nah its ok
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:18 PM): nothing major
mybrotherisdu (6:38:26 PM): Oh. You want to come to my house?
mybrotherisdu (6:45:03 PM): Hey, well btw I just measured my dick. It's 10 inches... in cirumference
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:13 PM): heyy i gtg
mybrotherisdu (6:45:14 PM): OK, see you in about 10 minutes
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:21 PM): nice talking to you
mybrotherisdu (6:45:23 PM): Oh, we'll be doing more than just talking when you get here
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:26 PM): bye
mybrotherisdu (6:45:34 PM): Well I'll see you soon. P.S.: I'm naked and horny!
XXXXXXXXXX signed off at 6:45:36 PM
I edited it to what it should have been like.
Re: I just had my first AIM conversation with a girl I like
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:14 pmby Coleman
SnakeySnakey wrote:mybrotherisdu (6:28:38 PM): What's up, this is Nick from trig class.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:02 PM): oh heyy nick!
mybrotherisdu (6:30:11 PM): Need any help with math?
mybrotherisdu (6:30:19 PM): Or anything else?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:54 PM): nah i get it now
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:59 PM): thx to you
XXXXXXXXXX (6:31:02 PM): =)
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): How was your day?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:35:56 PM): it was good
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:00 PM): for a monday atl east
mybrotherisdu (6:45:03 PM): Hey, well btw I passed my driving test today and I'm going to get a car this weekend.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:13 PM): heyy i gtg
mybrotherisdu (6:45:14 PM): In case you ever need a ride somewhere.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:21 PM): nice talking to you
mybrotherisdu (6:45:23 PM): Oh.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:26 PM): bye
mybrotherisdu (6:45:34 PM): Well I'll see you 7th period tomorrow!
XXXXXXXXXX signed off at 6:45:36 PM
This still isn't great, but I took out your biggest mistake in that conversation.
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:14 pmby suggs
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:17 pmby Snorri1234
wcaclimbing wrote:i think you pulled a 3, maybe a 4 there....
You were trying way too hard...
Yes. The beginning was good, but the latter bits were painfull. Just take a little more time, don't be desperate.
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:52 pmby dinobot
You get a negative five. Shite, you sounded like some creepy virgin who's never going to have sex (which may be the case). It's pretty obvious you're only thinking about yourself, otherwise you wouldn't be trying to manipulate her into feeling sorry for you. Seriously, it's guys like you who act super nice in order to make up for your horrible social skills and then wonder why you don't get girls. Only go for it if a woman you like shows interest in you first and get her to show interest in you by being a cool person to talk to. Acting desperate and lonely might get some poor woman to pity you, but eventually they'll find out what a selfish and horrible person you are.
Re: I just had my first AIM conversation with a girl I like
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:24 pmby nagerous
SnakeySnakey wrote:I got her screen name today under the pretext of helping her with trigonometry and I decided to give it a shot since she's breaking up with her boyfriend soon.
mybrotherisdu (6:28:38 PM): What's up, this is Nick from trig class.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:02 PM): oh heyy nick!
mybrotherisdu (6:30:11 PM): Need any help with math?
mybrotherisdu (6:30:19 PM): Or anything else?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:54 PM): nah i get it now
XXXXXXXXXX (6:30:59 PM): thx to you
XXXXXXXXXX (6:31:02 PM): =)
mybrotherisdu (6:31:20 PM): I do what I can.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:32:15 PM): haha
mybrotherisdu (6:32:26 PM): So, what's up?
mybrotherisdu (6:33:09 PM): How was your day?
mybrotherisdu (6:35:47 PM): Please respond.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:35:56 PM): it was good
mybrotherisdu (6:36:56 PM): Is your internet lagging?
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:00 PM): for a monday atl east
mybrotherisdu (6:37:02 PM): I can help you fix that.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:37:39 PM): no im just a lil busy atm
mybrotherisdu (6:37:50 PM): Oh, sorry.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:12 PM): lol nah its ok
XXXXXXXXXX (6:38:18 PM): nothing major
mybrotherisdu (6:38:26 PM): Oh.
mybrotherisdu (6:45:03 PM): Hey, well btw I passed my driving test today and I'm going to get a car this weekend.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:13 PM): heyy i gtg
mybrotherisdu (6:45:14 PM): In case you ever need a ride somewhere.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:21 PM): nice talking to you
mybrotherisdu (6:45:23 PM): Oh.
XXXXXXXXXX (6:45:26 PM): bye
mybrotherisdu (6:45:34 PM): Well I'll see you 7th period tomorrow!
XXXXXXXXXX signed off at 6:45:36 PM
Some parts were good like when she "haha"'d at me and thanked me, but at other parts I felt really shaky and awkward. How was it/10?
Haha, the bit where you said please respond made me cringe. As did the bit about needing a ride and the bit about the internet lagging and you offering to fix it. In all honesty I don't think she sounded interested but I am renowned for my pessimism and I don't know the full situation, just going from that convo. Just take it easy, don't be so forward, things will flow better. Or move on, if other conversations end up like this one and look for girls who don't perhaps have boyfriends and who may be more in your league (once again I don't know I'm just guessing from the style of the conversation).
Posted:
Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:33 pmby dcowboys055
Lucky Se7en wrote:You're in
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:34 pmby Anarkistsdream
kwanton wrote:AIM=bad
If you really like her try having conversations face to face instead of on aim. This is just my experience as I'm much more awkward thru the internets than face to face. May just be me tho....
Amen.
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:35 pmby apey
AD if I had AIM would you talk to me like that
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:37 pmby Anarkistsdream
apey wrote:AD if I had AIM would you talk to me like that
Hahaha... I don't use IM programs... But if I did, it would definitely be so we could cyber.
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:37 pmby Hanul
I'd give you a 4-5/10
Part of it was decent, but around the mid when you asked her to respond, well you sounded a little needy. You should never rush things.
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Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:39 pmby apey
Anarkistsdream wrote:apey wrote:AD if I had AIM would you talk to me like that
Hahaha... I don't use IM programs... But if I did, it would definitely be so we could cyber.
neither do I wanna pm j/k
