Anti Flirting?
Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 6:18 amHi all
I am not posting this in the flame forum because i am hoping this can be a discussion instead of a row and therefore can we talk amiably unless there is no other choice.
I was hoping all the people who have a problem with flirting would maybe understand something here.
I have noticed a lot of people making comments on the guys who "Hump the womens legs" or flirt with the ladies and i wanted people to know that i think this is unfair.
When you get a community with both women and men isnt it inevitable that eventually flirting my occur?
Yes a lot of the guys here are homing in on the ladies and doing anything they can to get attention. Maybe even see if they cant get the girls to recipricate. And yes this is a Risk game and therefore the main emphasis of conversation should be on Risk in some way, shape or form.
But thats why we have the general discussion. This is the social lounge.
You say the guys are losers. Well yes, the sad truth is there are probably some guys (and girls) on this forum who find it very hard to attract the opposite sex because they are not (or dont consider themselves to be) attractive. Perhaps while playing risk they have found someone of the opposite sex who gives them the attention they feel they cant get in reallife. Whats the problem with that?
Some of the guys are bored at work. I will use me as an example. My job often means i am on the phone to (for want of a stronger word) irritating people a lot of the day. Therefore to engage my mind i spend time on forums here and play risk. Now i have a girlfriend and one i am very fond of. I wouldnt cheat on her. But some playful banter with say Cynthia or S.X.Kitten helps me to while away the time and who ever i am playing with. Is there anything wrong with that?
Some guys/girls are very successul (sp^) with the opposite sex and yet because they find a personality or picture of someone here appealing they cant help but flirt. Cynthia would be my example there. Is there anything wrong with that?
All im saying is, whatever the reason it in my opinion generally justified and generally all in good fun. I dont understand the recent outbreak of harsh comments aimed at those involved in the aforementioned fun.
If you have managed to read this far i think i should thankyou for actually bothering to read this far and inform you that there are no refunds on the time you just lost reading my shite post.
Thanks
I am not posting this in the flame forum because i am hoping this can be a discussion instead of a row and therefore can we talk amiably unless there is no other choice.
I was hoping all the people who have a problem with flirting would maybe understand something here.
I have noticed a lot of people making comments on the guys who "Hump the womens legs" or flirt with the ladies and i wanted people to know that i think this is unfair.
When you get a community with both women and men isnt it inevitable that eventually flirting my occur?
Yes a lot of the guys here are homing in on the ladies and doing anything they can to get attention. Maybe even see if they cant get the girls to recipricate. And yes this is a Risk game and therefore the main emphasis of conversation should be on Risk in some way, shape or form.
But thats why we have the general discussion. This is the social lounge.
You say the guys are losers. Well yes, the sad truth is there are probably some guys (and girls) on this forum who find it very hard to attract the opposite sex because they are not (or dont consider themselves to be) attractive. Perhaps while playing risk they have found someone of the opposite sex who gives them the attention they feel they cant get in reallife. Whats the problem with that?
Some of the guys are bored at work. I will use me as an example. My job often means i am on the phone to (for want of a stronger word) irritating people a lot of the day. Therefore to engage my mind i spend time on forums here and play risk. Now i have a girlfriend and one i am very fond of. I wouldnt cheat on her. But some playful banter with say Cynthia or S.X.Kitten helps me to while away the time and who ever i am playing with. Is there anything wrong with that?
Some guys/girls are very successul (sp^) with the opposite sex and yet because they find a personality or picture of someone here appealing they cant help but flirt. Cynthia would be my example there. Is there anything wrong with that?
All im saying is, whatever the reason it in my opinion generally justified and generally all in good fun. I dont understand the recent outbreak of harsh comments aimed at those involved in the aforementioned fun.
If you have managed to read this far i think i should thankyou for actually bothering to read this far and inform you that there are no refunds on the time you just lost reading my shite post.
Thanks
Those people are totally retarded 
