Who masturbates ???????????

[happy2seeyou]

im suprised how many females have joined in- the latest being H2SY.
and the most is 4 times and then i had so i count nthat as 5.5

I have not "joined in", I am just laughing at this thread.

So you're trying to tell us that you haven't joined in????

hahaha, I have no need to "join in". My husband takes care of all that and much more.

Hmm. How cryptic.

happy we need you to give us some details

NO

[hecter]

im suprised how many females have joined in- the latest being H2SY.
and the most is 4 times and then i had so i count nthat as 5.5

I have not "joined in", I am just laughing at this thread.

So you're trying to tell us that you haven't joined in????

hahaha, I have no need to "join in". My husband takes care of all that and much more.

You said I wouldn't see you say stuff like that anymore!

[dirk41]

I used to masterbate from when I was 13 years old I'm 34 now ,and I havent done it in 2 years. And since then my marrage and sex life has been better than ever.

[EvilPurpleMonkey]

Nice first post.

[dussle]

Nice first post.

Indeed. That's quite a first impression.

[MeDeFe]

Still, that's about 20 years or so of masturbating, so now I'll ask the questions we all want an answer to.
Did your acuity worsen a lot during that time? And did any hair start growing in your palms?

[sam_levi_11]

happy, we know u did, maybe you dont anymore.....but u used i bet....

[diddle]

to be honest, i don't see why its such a taboo subject

[diddle]

heres some rough shit, i once knew a guy who told a girl he was masturbating over her

[sam_levi_11]

i knew a guy who on the first day iof going out sent a video from his phone of him doing it

[dirk41]

We'll to me and some people it's a taboo thing to do because I am a born again christian. And when you commit this act it is a form of selfishness, Sex is something that should be done and shared with a loved one not yourself. I'ts also a sin because most will not masterbate with out looking at some sort of oral stimulation. And when you do that you are commiting adultry. Because your fantasying about some one else.

[sam_levi_11]

not necarcarily(sp) you could be thinking about your wife or sumin if they died or sumin and arent ready to move on but still want release

[dirk41]

I know some guy's will say what i'm young and not married that should be okay. Well I used to think that to. Thinking I would stop when I got married. Well that didnt work, it is a form of addiction and once you start it is very hard to stop and you do hurt loved ones. So I know alot of guys out there will give me flack for saying these thing's, but this what I believe because i did it and it has happend to me. Thanks.

[sam_levi_11]

okay, but the fact u used two posts telling us this is worrying when u only have 3

[dirk41]

Yes i understand that Sam_levi_11 but then you should be with your wife and sharing your feelings with her not yourself. If your loved one has passed on then eventualy you should move on and not become a slave to your hand and own desires. Theres always gonna be an excuse that satan and people give you to say it's alright I know I made those excuses as well.

[sam_levi_11]

can i say im an atheist but i have respect for you as your religeon is something you love and dont disregard others opinions...

oh, and i dont have a wife i have a gf and she is at work, and when she is away for a reason or another id rather i did that than cheat on her

[MeDeFe]

But dirk41, if I love myself, why can't I share this love with me!?
(I'm at least three-quarters-joking btw, not trying to trap you in a logical conundrum, well, except with the remaing quarter.)

[dirk41]

Thanks Sam_levi_11 for understanding me and not judging me either. I respect what you said as well.

[Ronaldinho]

We'll to me and some people it's a taboo thing to do because I am a born again christian. And when you commit this act it is a form of selfishness, Sex is something that should be done and shared with a loved one not yourself. I'ts also a sin because most will not masterbate with out looking at some sort of oral stimulation. And when you do that you are commiting adultry. Because your fantasying about some one else.

Ok heres a situation for you: Lets say you are married, 20years or so, doesnt really matter. And you have stayed with faith or what have you, and she has been the only person you have shared sexual activities with etc etc. Anyway, she dies, but you dont want to get another partner. In her life she had pictures of her, in sexual pos, and you still own them. MY question is, do you have a bash over her, or go dig her up and shag the corpse that was once your wife, this i believe to be called Necrophilia.


So what would you do, lol.

[dirk41]

Thats a hard one to answer. I agree that doing it when your not married probably isnt such a sin. I think that before your married masterbating is better than going around and getting every woman pregnant and contracting diseases. But like I said before I have seen it become a very easy way of destroying marriages, because it can also get you involved in porn and once happens you might as well kiss your marriage goodbye.

[Ronaldinho]

Thats a hard one to answer. I agree that doing it when your not married probably isnt such a sin. I think that before your married masterbating is better than going around and getting every woman pregnant and contracting diseases. But like I said before I have seen it become a very easy way of destroying marriages, because it can also get you involved in porn and once happens you might as well kiss your marriage goodbye.

Spose, well about the masterbating before getting married, maybe you should not be fully sexual until you're married if its part of the religion you follow. Maybe just oral sex is all.

[UCAbears]

who doesnt masturbate?

[dirk41]

sex is sex and if you do oral chances are you might get tempted to go all the way.I know every situation is different but In my case when i masterbated it was behind my wifes back because most woman will not understand why a man would have to do this if their married. It pretty much screwed up are lives because sin begets sin and when I did this I noticed are marriage was not at its best, alot of arguing and since I stopped my marriage has been awsome. So I guess I'm just passonite about this subject because I dont want to see other men fall into this same cycle as I did thats all.

[diddle]

who doesnt masturbate?

thats a rhetorical question

[nietzsche]

is a sin