Funkyterrance wrote:Metsfanmax wrote:Funkyterrance wrote:Metsfanmax wrote:
This isn't a binary situation, where I am a moral saint if I give every single dollar I can to charity, and morally despicable if I give even one dollar less. The closer I get to the ideal the better, but I don't consider myself worthless as a person because I'm not all the way there. The correct response to the shame you perceive isn't to say "f*ck it, if Mets isn't giving every dollar he can then I'm not going to give anything to anyone who needs it."
I'm just trying to figure out how full knowing the morally correct thing(according to your own discoveries) and then deciding not to do it for "personal reasons" isn't actually rejecting the validity of the original moral argument.
Well this is because you're still trying to view morals through a classical deontological lens, where there's a "morally correct thing to do." In that perspective, an action is either right or wrong. That's not something I believe, because it implies that there is some either/or situation, a dichotomy where either you're acting morally or not. That is incompatible with utilitarianism. In utilitarianism you are acting more morally if you choose the action that does more good. The closest analogue might be to express the concept that there's some functional upper limit to the maximum amount of good you can possibly do as an individual, but that doesn't mean you're being immoral if you don't achieve that, because I don't think the concept of immorality really makes sense in this context.
It's not a matter of "potential good", it's a matter of decisiveness. If you're choosing to refuse what you think is ideal, if the ideal is doable, then what you're really saying is that it's not ideal, otherwise you would be doing it.
I don't think it's inconsistent if you want to spend half of your disposable income on leisure and the other half on charity but I do think it's inconsistent if you say that ideally you would spend all your disposable income on charity but decide not to.
You are just playing tricks with words. The obvious resolution to this alleged conflict is that what is ideal for society and what is ideal for me often are not the same thing. My own personal utility would be maximized if I had no reason to give my money away and could just play video games all day long. But as a utilitarian I believe it is important for me to sometimes sacrifice some of my own good for the good of others, because I am not the only important person in the world. So, it will often be the case that one has to give up things one wants in order to achieve what is best for society collectively. If I were an impartial observer without my own interests, then the good of society and my own good would be the same thing. But that is not true for selfish humans.
So it is quite coherent to suggest that being altruistic is what is ideal for society and also to admit that sometimes being altruistic means a little bit of self-sacrifice.