salvadevinemasse wrote:S.XKitten-
Most of you that remember me, I'm sure, remember me and kitten were close a while.. well we had a big fight and it lead to the end of our relationship.. Since last I knew she didn't get it maybe some of you can explain this whole thing to her of why I left our friendship?
Would you guys put up with this?1) you tell someone you were in a car accident that month and instead of asking if your okay they tell you everything wrong with them and don't even seem to care you were in an accident?
2) When talking to you they say their ex tried to kill them, then while talking to your b/f explain something totally different then what they explained to you.
3) they ask you to call your b/f to get him online because they miss him..
Tells you your online hugs aren't like his..
or calls him alot on the phone and cries talking to him alot because of an ex(brandon)
4) was on/off trying to get your b/f to come up to their state not ever really saying at first that your invited so he always has to say i'll come if my g/f can come too and she says okay but never really seems to like the idea of you there from the tone of voice
5) Almost always has you jealous because they flirt constantly with your b/f
6) They basically stop talking to you unless YOU IM THEM... Yet your b/f goes online and boom they are the first window that pops up every time
7) Always makes it clear they are talking to your b/f when you are if your talking to them

tells you...better yet I saved the IM why dont you guys see yourself.. As you can see I'm trying to talk things out and she doesnt seem to understand/ care at all in the end of things...
This is the reason I havent been comming onto the site...I know i'm upset in this IM you can see that but i was still trying my butt off to try to work things out. I'm happy I'm out of all of her drama..Because thats all she was to me in the end, was drama.
in the end of things the next day to add insult to injury she told my b/f she figured that meant they couldn't be friends because in her way of thinking i was going to basically take him away from her... (Sorry Kat, I trust my b/f.. I don't trust you anymore and i never will... But I trust and love him with all my heart.) It'll be a year and a half for us and as he said once to me you don't have to understand why he's with me, he loves me and thats all that matters.
(That was the same day you talked to him after I told him about the fight.)
considering someone said she was 17 around when kat January or so in your letter your b-day is when December and now your 18? why do i think your telling me and VTMarik different story's?
Heres the IM
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Salva (6/22/2007 10:51:40 PM): is there a reason you never im me anymore? and havent replied to my last letter? you talked to VTMarik the other day and i didnt even get a hello..i feel so unliked right now by you. you must either really hate me, or really love VTMarik. bye i wont bother you anymore
Kat (6/22/2007 10:51:51 PM): ooh
Kat (6/22/2007 10:51:52 PM): i'm sorry
Kat (6/22/2007 10:52:02 PM): i've just been really busy
Kat (6/22/2007 10:52:19 PM): and when i called VTMarik, it was right after an incident with brandon...
Salva (6/22/2007 10:52:36 PM): yeah which you never call me about always him
Kat (6/22/2007 10:53:13 PM): so...you are upset because i called him and not you?
Salva (6/22/2007 10:53:33 PM): no i'm upset because you never call me.
Salva (6/22/2007 10:53:45 PM): I'm always the one calling you
Kat (6/22/2007 10:54:05 PM): i've been having serious minute issues
Kat (6/22/2007 10:54:13 PM): i got my cell phone taken away last month
Kat (6/22/2007 10:54:31 PM): if i have nothing to talk about, i don't call them...
Salva (6/22/2007 10:55:05 PM): you barely ever talk to me, hard for me to believe theres nothing to say
Kat (6/22/2007 10:55:19 PM): oh, and i sent your letter out a while ago (Which might I add was a lie, I never EVER got a letter)
Salva (6/22/2007 10:55:59 PM): ok.
Kat (6/22/2007 10:56:26 PM): its been a hard month, i've hardly talked to
anyone
salva (6/22/2007 10:57:40 PM): hard month...have you gotten hit by a car while crying in your car at that moment because your mom called you to bitch you out at work? Or realized that in 3 days it'll be your ex's 2nd year of being dead?
Salva (6/22/2007 10:58:50 PM): maybe you have had a hard week of realizing that you really do need a new job? or that you wanna go back to college but cant afford it too
Kat (6/22/2007 10:59:20 PM): no, but it has been six months since Nick died, i have had my shoulder dislocated, my knee torn apart by my horse, brandon attempt to kill me, and generally a really fucked up school month
salva (6/22/2007 10:59:24 PM): My boss cut my hours in half insteasd of 40 i'm working 20 and am in debt
salva (6/22/2007 11:02:48 PM): you never seem to wanna talk to me these days part of me even wonders sometimes why I try with you.I'm always trying then when I dont try you dont either .. I really never see effort on your part to try to remain friends
Kat (6/22/2007 11:03:21 PM): well, i wasn't really aware there was a problem until you told me tonight...
Salva (6/22/2007 11:04:52 PM): i'm sure you werent..I know the world doesnt revolve around me and I'm fine with that kat. but every once in a while it would be nice to be noticed even a little
Kat (6/22/2007 11:05:39 PM): i'm sorry to have hurt your feelings
Salva (6/22/2007 11:06:00 PM): i mean hell Morph IMs me alot more then you and he only talks to me like 1 time every couple weeks
Kat (6/22/2007 11:06:10 PM): umm...he never talks to me
Kat (6/22/2007 11:06:22 PM): we got in a fight a long time ago, and don't talk anymore...
salva (6/22/2007 11:06:34 PM): last i knew you didnt like him
Kat (6/22/2007 11:07:02 PM): okay...
salva (6/22/2007 11:08:58 PM): if someone called your b/f and they were your friend too wouldnt you be hurt if they barely talked to you anymore and called him then didnt even say tell her hi for me?
Kat (6/22/2007 11:09:46 PM): no, because we didn't even get to finish the conversation, he had to leave for work in the middle of it
salva (6/22/2007 11:10:13 PM): i know he did because i was across from him when he told you that
Salva (6/22/2007 11:10:49 PM): and yeah he had to go to work infact you called him just before he had to go on air
Kat (6/22/2007 11:10:58 PM): *shrugs* point?>
Salva(6/22/2007 11:13:29 PM): you know what.. remain his friend but if you cant even understand a little then I'm not gonna bother anymore..
you hurt me the other day and I dont see a need to continue getting hurt by you never seeming to wanna call me and always calling my b/f when your hurt instead of once in a while picking the phone up and calling me which would waste the same minutesKat (6/22/2007 11:14:02 PM): he's sympathetic...you tell me what i do wrong...
Kat (6/22/2007 11:14:11 PM): thats why i don't want to call you when i'm hurt
salva (6/22/2007 11:16:11 PM):
I'm just as sympathetic most people come to me when they need a shoulder to cry on thank you.. If i wasnt I doubt VTMarik would even be dating my ass..if I always said what he did wrong and was never understanding and loving do you really think we would have made it this long?Kat (6/22/2007 11:16:40 PM): *shrugs* no idea, the dynamics of your relationship is your business, not mine...
salva (6/22/2007 11:16:54 PM): your right..Bye.
Kat (6/22/2007 11:17:11 PM): bye...
salva (6/22/2007 11:17:47 PM): by the way that was a really bitch thing to ever say to me..so this really is bye lose my yahoo and my number
Kat (6/22/2007 11:18:00 PM): mmm hmm...
That IM and that person is exactly why I wasn't coming back till my friend DAZ had told my b/f he missed my posts... I had every female friend telling me to find a way to get my b/f to even leave her as a friend they felt that kat would try to make a move on my b/f with the way that conversation was and the things I was telling them about that bothered me which i basically explained in the conversation, and in this post.
I wont do it because I love him and trust him. I'll never make him choose between us.. I already told him that part as long as I dont have to hear about her or she doesn't call or talk to him when I'm there its okay. Online I don't care about that I just hope I'm not in the room when it happens..I realllllly Don't like her anymore... She was so sweet and nice at first, then boom nightmare from hell, or drama queen from hell.. I mean there I was simply trying to explain how i felt and instead of okay well how can we deal with this or something to that ability I get told off in a way. I dont need that or her in my life.
I missed some of you guys badly though I truly did.. I just didn't want to talk to her period and I dont know if I can ignore her on this site..
ttyl
Love Salva~