s.xkitten wrote:You were a bit early Mandy...
salvadevinemasse wrote:1) you tell someone you were in a car accident that month and instead of asking if your okay they tell you everything wrong with them and don't even seem to care you were in an
accident?
(Really, Where? Show me because I've looked it over and I dont see it)
salvadevinemasse wrote:2) When talking to you they say their ex tried to kill them, then while talking to your b/f explain something totally different then what they explained to you.
(No, you told me that he tried to kill you and VT came out and said he just scared you..so as far as I heard in my opinion that must have been what you told VT)
salvadevinemasse wrote:3) they ask you to call your b/f to get him online because they miss him..
Tells you your online hugs aren't like his..
or calls him alot on the phone and cries talking to him alot because of an ex(brandon)
( I didnt say that I said no to calling him.. Did I? You said that my online hugs weren't the same as his at least 2 times that I can recall but unlike you I'm not great with dates. most the time I saw him call you was after you called him first. Did I say you tried to steal him? No.. I said that sometimes it felt like you wanted to..)
salvadevinemasse wrote:4) was on/off trying to get your b/f to come up to their state not ever really saying at first that your invited so he always has to say i'll come if my g/f can come too and she says okay but never really seems to like the idea of you there from the tone of voice
"I dunno about my tone of voice, but you and him were always welcome here, if we were serious.
(Okay I might have taken that to much out of context...But I was only stating how I saw things. Yes, It did always feel like he was more welcome then I was.. Because you loved talking to him more and in the way I saw things you made it clear by IMing him a ton more then me..or telling me that you were talking to him at times I didnt even know he was on.)
salvadevinemasse wrote:5) Almost always has you jealous because they flirt constantly with your b/f
First of all, I asked you repeatedly if it bothered you, and you always said no, that it was fine, you trusted him and knew that he loved only you. Second of all, I flirt with everyone...well, almost everyone. Besides, I'm across the country from you. How on earth could I steal him from you?
(I never said that you were trying to steal him.. I said I felt jealous at times and yes a couple times I told you that because of the web cam thing where my b/f was on and I waved hi and you looked disappointed all a sudden and said "whats she doing there" So that one you caused because it NEVER bothered me until THAT day!!!! Thats when I started feeling like you didnt like me as much and stuff.)
salvadevinemasse wrote:6) They basically stop talking to you unless YOU IM THEM... Yet your b/f goes online and boom they are the first window that pops up every time
Yeah, I pretty much stopped talking to you. I'll admit it. I wasn't really paying attention to who I was talking to. There are a lot of people on my messenger list I almost never talk to, no matter how much they are on. Yet they never take offense at it like you did.
(Yet when my b/f signed on when i'd be at his house you IMed him instantly.. or I'd be talking to him and it was "Kat Imed me" Yet you dont pay attention right? That one I dont buy one bit thanks..)
salvadevinemasse wrote:7) Always makes it clear they are talking to your b/f when you are if your talking to them
Erm...I don't really get it...WHat is your point?
(My point was simply that I didnt need you telling me every time we talked weither or not my b/f was talking to you or you asking me if he was on)
salvadevinemasse wrote:in the end of things the next day to add insult to injury she told my b/f she figured that meant they couldn't be friends because in her way of thinking i was going to basically take him away from her... (Sorry Kat, I trust my b/f.. I don't trust you anymore and i never will... But I trust and love him with all my heart.) It'll be a year and a half for us and as he said once to me you don't have to understand why he's with me, he loves me and thats all that matters.
*tilts head to one side* Yes...I assumed something. I don't see how that offends you, most people who feel as threatened as you do by me ask their significant other to not talk to them. Obviously, you are above that. I guess I'm sorry that I offended you, it was not my intention. Nor did I ever ask why he was with you. He is, he's happy, you are happy with him. How is it my business at all why he cares for you?
(Its not... simple answer to a simple question)
Also, I explained to you very carefully about the call that started this whole silly fight. Brandon scared me. I called VT. I called him at 3:50 on June 21, the call lasted for 4 minutes and 56 seconds. Before that call, the last time I talked to him was on May 15th at 6:16. I told you I was having minute problems, which I was. The actual 4 minute call was shorter then I expected, hence the reason I didn't say hi. You said you were sitting right there, so you should have heard exactly what our conversation was that day.
(I'm not looking for a phone record..Its not like I'm saying you two can never call one another... I was just ticked because its mean to call one person when your friends with both and only that one basically... you'd waste the
SAME minutes with me that you would with him and its bullshit to call someones b/f all the time and never call them and say that your both peoples friends when your not willing to put the same effort into both relationships which you werent.)
Second of all, I never said no I didn't want to talk to you. I always talked to you when he offered, with the exception of when I got the look of death from my mother (when she threatens to take my phone away if I don't get off it). I got that when I was just talking to him, and when I was just talking to you. Its no different between the two of you.
(wow, you must have gotten that look how many times when you were "considering" calling me right? Let me guess now you'll say that thats the reason you called me like what once maybe 2 times at most and him more.. or did you just pick straws and I just got the short one every time?)
Once again, I'm sorry I hurt your feelings.
The only one who brought drama into their lives was salva...she's the one who came at me, both on the IM, and now on here...so, does she have to face the consequences?
).
