Conquer Club, Help Me!

[muy_thaiguy]

I and the others will need to be the judge of who looks better, so please post some pics? joking, but still, when I was going through the pics thread, I wasn't able to see s.xkitten's pics for some reason and I don't think Beastly ever posted any.

1. I dont think s.xkitten posted any
2. Beastly hasn't posted any either

Bold = great idea

No, I remember some comments in the puics thread where s.x and salva where in some pics and were commented on, buut the pics were either deleted, or wouldn't show on my PC.

[freezie]

Neither Norse.

Yes, because you have blatantly been involved, romantically, with something other than your left palm.

Don't head my advice at your own peril.

My left palm is good to keep my balance when I am playing bowling, typing on my keyboard faster than using only my right's, is the hand I use to keep my cue stick in balance when palying pool, also used to keep bottles.

Otherwise, I don't know what you're talking about, unless my girlfriend is called left palm..

Love > sex. Learn that. Then Maybe..MAYBE..I will have abit of respect for you.

[freezie]

I do know that... The husband I have now, is not a asshole....

But, like the man who made this thread, he doesn't know what he is doing.

If your committed you don't go out with other women without your main squeeze. It keeps you men out of trouble.

Geez, after reading 4 of your posts, I cansafely assume you are a jealous prick.

Not every guys will go out with other girls behind their back.

Now, WHAT is wrong in having FRIENDS that are not of the same gender as you are? What if Kal, his friend and his girlfriend managed to all go out together at once? It's bad because he has a girl friend ( And not girlfriend) ?

What if he went out with his friends, and there is a girl or 2 in there. But other guys? Still bad? NO it's friends.

Now, if he met her and they hung out the 2 of them together, how is that bad? IF they keep it to friendship.

Now, if you were to REALLY feel something about that girl kal, then we can say that you don't feel much love for your girlfriend anymore. You CANNOT love 2 persons, remember that.



If it was only my decision, it would be to keep your current girlfriend. You went out with her for a few years, you can still be together still. Beeing loyal is my first value in a relationship. I wouldn't be ashamed to go out one day without my girlfriend even if I hang out with another girl, simply because I know I will not cheat in her back.

Yea well anyway. Unless you really don't love her anymore...Otherwise, always better to stay this way and have your friend only beeing your friend.

[AndrewLC]

I do know that... The husband I have now, is not a asshole....

But, like the man who made this thread, he doesn't know what he is doing.

If your committed you don't go out with other women without your main squeeze. It keeps you men out of trouble.

Geez, after reading 4 of your posts, I cansafely assume you are a jealous prick.

Not every guys will go out with other girls behind their back.

Now, WHAT is wrong in having FRIENDS that are not of the same gender as you are? What if Kal, his friend and his girlfriend managed to all go out together at once? It's bad because he has a girl friend ( And not girlfriend) ?

What if he went out with his friends, and there is a girl or 2 in there. But other guys? Still bad? NO it's friends.

Now, if he met her and they hung out the 2 of them together, how is that bad? IF they keep it to friendship.

Now, if you were to REALLY feel something about that girl kal, then we can say that you don't feel much love for your girlfriend anymore. You CANNOT love 2 persons, remember that.



If it was only my decision, it would be to keep your current girlfriend. You went out with her for a few years, you can still be together still. Beeing loyal is my first value in a relationship. I wouldn't be ashamed to go out one day without my girlfriend even if I hang out with another girl, simply because I know I will not cheat in her back.

Yea well anyway. Unless you really don't love her anymore...Otherwise, always better to stay this way and have your friend only beeing your friend.

Quote for Truth!

[kwanton]

freezie=my hero

[Iliad]

freezie=my hero

[muy_thaiguy]

freezie=my hero

[Wisse]

in 7 hours 8 pages!

[Iliad]

in 7 hours 8 pages!

Wow.

[Wisse]

I and the others will need to be the judge of who looks better, so please post some pics? joking, but still, when I was going through the pics thread, I wasn't able to see s.xkitten's pics for some reason and I don't think Beastly ever posted any.

1. I dont think s.xkitten posted any
2. Beastly hasn't posted any either

Bold = great idea

1. actually she did, and had her picture in her avatar

[F1fth]

F1fth=my hero

Thanks guys. I know, I know, I am pretty cool.



Kidding. freezie's the man.

[Kal]

First question I have for you is...

Have you EVER had a friend that was female.

From a womans point of view, I have had many friends that were male, and they all end up trying to f*ck me. As for your live in girlfriend, YOU are in a committed relationship, if you don't want to be in it, you shouldn't be sniffing around and getting to know other girls. I am telling you, it doesn't matter if you have things in common or not. AS soon as the the wind blows in the lower direction you will want to have sex. The new friendship is fun because all new things are exciting.

Don't go out with other girls behind your girlfriends back!!! Even if you don't f*ck, she will still be pissed, because intimacy is not just about sex. If you hook those two girls up, or your girlfriend finds out, she will always be wondering if your cheating and it will cause stress on your relationship.

If your going to make friends online, keep it online.

I say you should explain to your current girlfriend that you are unsure that you want to be in a committed relationship and move on. OR Quit pursuing women online. Don't play with your current girlfriends heart strings, that is just wrong on all levels. Get out of your relationship and then pursue others. Your a dick for even going and meeting her. If your going to be committed be fucking committed!!!

It's either all or nothing. OR you could find yourself a bi-sexual woman.

edit... Don't tell your girlfriend, if your not going to pursue that relationship, it will hurt your relationship because she will never forget it, and will never trust you!

WOW, I would have NEVER expected the WORST and most degrading advice to be from a girl. Who do you think you are? First you dis me and ask if I've "EVER" had a girl as a friend, and then you assume that I'm like all the dirtbag guy friends you have and only interested in fucking her. Not ALL guys are the horn-dogs like your friends seem to be (believe it or not!).

I DO however agree with you at a very good point. Intimacy is still intimicy, and it can be very hurtful. Thanks for commenting on that.

I disagree with your comment on keeping internet friends only online. And I DO NOT pursue women online, you dolt. I met her and we started talking as friends. Get off yer rocker.

I'm a dick for meeting her? And YOU are a good judge of character? Someone who has "lots" of guy friends that only want her for sex can't be a terribly good judge of character...

I do agree with your "All or nothing" remark. However, you still came across ass... Bitchy? Come back in, ohhh, about a week or so. You've come out as a very high-and-mighty reighteous know-it-all. If you were Persian I'd kick your ass into a pit.

[Kal]

But its never all or nothing.

and what is wrong with a man hanging out with women that aren't his girlfriend...like seriously....are you that jealous?


Oh, and he shouldn't f*ck with her heartstrings, but at the same time, he should just leave if he's not really into the relationship, because that fucks with them more

Thanks you very much. I agree with the heartstrings thing. Did anyone else find that chick with the cat in her boobs slightly obnoxious?

Anyways, thanks for trying to help s.xkitten. Good advice from you. +2 temporary modifier to reflex Saves.

[Iliad]

But its never all or nothing.

and what is wrong with a man hanging out with women that aren't his girlfriend...like seriously....are you that jealous?


Oh, and he shouldn't f*ck with her heartstrings, but at the same time, he should just leave if he's not really into the relationship, because that fucks with them more

Thanks you very much. I agree with the heartstrings thing. Did anyone else find that chick with the cat in her boobs slightly obnoxious?

Anyways, thanks for trying to help s.xkitten. Good advice from you. +2 temporary modifier to reflex Saves.

Beastly slightly obnoxious? That's a big understatement!

[Kal]

Call it control, I don't give a shit what you call it. If you allow your man to cheat he will. If you don't allow your man, he still may. But for hells sake if you allow it and make it easy for him, then it is as much your fault as it is his.

Here's the deal though. If the man your dating has a desire to cheat on you, then you shouldn't be with him anyways. I'm sure Kal's intentions were never to betray his girlfriend, he just wound up in an awkward position that got out of control.

THANK YOU! I like Mr. Wolf already. Despite him calling me a noob because I said "I has a flavour" in another fourm... Hehheh.

[Kal]

His girlfriend doesn't know he went to meet* her for a reason!

and sexkitten use to have her picture in her avatar with her chest exposed.

I have never posted my pic.

I went to meet her because she's kool, not because I wanted to screw her, genius.

And having an OLD picture that isn't used anymore with your boobs in it isn't as bad as posting someone ELSE's boobs as your avatar...

[Kal]

I do know that... The husband I have now, is not a asshole....

But, like the man who made this thread, he doesn't know what he is doing.

If your committed you don't go out with other women without your main squeeze. It keeps you men out of trouble.

Geez, after reading 4 of your posts, I cansafely assume you are a jealous prick.

Not every guys will go out with other girls behind their back.

Now, WHAT is wrong in having FRIENDS that are not of the same gender as you are? What if Kal, his friend and his girlfriend managed to all go out together at once? It's bad because he has a girl friend ( And not girlfriend) ?

What if he went out with his friends, and there is a girl or 2 in there. But other guys? Still bad? NO it's friends.

Now, if he met her and they hung out the 2 of them together, how is that bad? IF they keep it to friendship.

Now, if you were to REALLY feel something about that girl kal, then we can say that you don't feel much love for your girlfriend anymore. You CANNOT love 2 persons, remember that.



If it was only my decision, it would be to keep your current girlfriend. You went out with her for a few years, you can still be together still. Beeing loyal is my first value in a relationship. I wouldn't be ashamed to go out one day without my girlfriend even if I hang out with another girl, simply because I know I will not cheat in her back.

Yea well anyway. Unless you really don't love her anymore...Otherwise, always better to stay this way and have your friend only beeing your friend.

You've been arguing my points when I've been away!? Thanks alot. You know exactly how life works. And you're right, by the way. We could All end up being friends. I won't feel ashamed to have girls as friends, and I won't cheat either. If I really decided this other girl was for me, I'd break up first.

Mad respect, freezie.

[Minister Masket]

I disagree with your comment on keeping internet friends only online. And I DO NOT pursue women online, you dolt. I met her and we started talking as friends. Get off yer rocker.

This guy is BRILLIANT!
As for your situation, well the answer is probably one of those "long-lost truths" in some Male Book of Rules. If you wish to find this book, Tibet is your best option.

In all seriousness, none of us can decide for you. Follow the path of Disney and let your heart decide. Because naturally, a bloody pumping organ is great at making decisions based on life and death!

[Beastly]

WOW, I would have NEVER expected the WORST and most degrading advice to be from a girl.

Sorry you got a honest opinion, that you did not like.

Who do you think you are? First you dis me and ask if I've "EVER" had a girl as a friend, and then you assume that I'm like all the dirtbag guy friends you have and only interested in fucking her. Not ALL guys are the horn-dogs like your friends seem to be (believe it or not!).

I asked you if you "EVER" had a friendship with a woman, because if you were successful at it, then that means you can do it with this woman....I never said you were like any guy. I never said anything about all guys being horn-dogs... I have a wonderful man in my life who IS a horndog and bones me all the time, but I know he is only boning me! If he wants to be a horn dog with someone else, he can go do it! But, I'm surely not gonna stay with him... And he cannot go out with other women even if they are his "FRIENDS" Because I am not going to put up with it... I deserve better than that, and if he don't like, then he can hit the pavement. And he doesn't need to anyway, he has man friends. and he doesn't spend "alone" time with any other women. I never said anything about ALL guys. Learn to read better!

And I never Assumed anything either. I saw what I saw, as you put it. YOU met a girl online, then went and met with her without her girlfriend knowing. And I told you my opinion. If you are going to ask for people's opinion, you should have a open mind, and not get nasty if you don't like it.

I'm a dick for meeting her? And YOU are a good judge of character? Someone who has "lots" of guy friends that only want her for sex can't be a terribly good judge of character...

And you met her secretly because??? Yes, I believe dating a girl when you have a girlfriend is pretty fucked up. You didn't just MEET her, you went on a date! YOU hungout with her.

I do agree with your "All or nothing" remark. However, you still came across ass... Bitchy? Come back in, ohhh, about a week or so. You've come out as a very high-and-mighty reighteous know-it-all. If you were Persian I'd kick your ass into a pit.

I didn't ask for you to tell me what you thought of me, so why are you?

I told you how it is, because you asked. NOTHING personal, so grow up.

YOU are in a committed relationship....And you know as well as I, that your girlfriend doesn't expect you to go spend time with other women, especially ALONE!

I simply said you have 2 options.

Quit seeing your new girlfriend and cheating on your present girlfriend.

or

Break up with your current girlfriend and move on.

YOUR the one who stated you are attracted to this other girl..

And I can be anybody I want! High and mighty, at least I know better than to f*ck up a relationship with someone I love for a FRIEND!
What's next, you gonna beat on your girls? and then ask if it is ok, if you don't do it again?

YOU got honesty pal, that is what you asked for. IF your not in a committed relationship, then you can see all the girls you want.

Girls don't generally say, "It's ok hon, go out with whoever you want, and as many as you want, just don't have sex, Go be Alone with your FRIENDS, instead of with me, no problem."

Another question for you...Would you like your girlfriend to go spend Alone time with other men?


YOU made this stupid thread, and then when you don't like my response you disrespect me. HOW DARE YOU you hypocrite!


Go ahead and don't take my advice. Go tell your current girlfriend that you are going to date the other girl and that you are attracted to her. But make it sound like it's not dating, it's just hanging out together.

OR

Go ahead and keep seeing the girl and not tell your girlfriend.

Dude, your gonna make your own life miserable, and the innocent one in your life miserable.

And in the future, if your gonna start a thread and then say nasty things to somebody, you should do it in flame WARS! This was not the place to trash on me, just because I was brutally honest. It is against the rules to trash on people in this forum! It was conversation. I just offended you because I said you were a dick, for meeting that gal, behind your girlfriends back, and I probably shouldn't have, because I didn't think you would be so offended. I should have said that going and meeting that girl without your girlfriend knowing, is FUCKED up, and it makes you look like a Dick! Is that better?

Think about it! Why did you do it Secretly? YOU.. know why!

[Skoffin]

OH SHI- When did Freezie become An Hero!?

Also, probably should tell your girfriend you've made a female friend online and have been meeting her, if she learns you have by any other means she will likely wonder why you've been secretive about it and assume the worst.

And if you do introduce them, be warned. Now of course not all women are the same, but generally they see other women (especially the rather attrative ones) as competition particularly if they know that their man if spending quite a bit of time with this other woman. The girlfriend may not say anything or even act hostile to this person, but it is a likely possibility that she will be silently hating this other individual.

[Beastly]

Geez, after reading 4 of your posts, I cansafely assume you are a jealous prick.

Not every guys will go out with other girls behind their back.

Where did I say that?
How the hell old are you? Not wanting my man to spend time Alone with other women is Jealousy? NO, i disagree, it's not being stupid, people do make mistakes, why help someone to make it? Many women can be catty bitches, and can't be trusted..
MY man has no business spending his time with another woman...

Now, WHAT is wrong in having FRIENDS that are not of the same gender as you are? What if Kal, his friend and his girlfriend managed to all go out together at once? It's bad because he has a girl friend ( And not girlfriend) What if he went out with his friends, and there is a girl or 2 in there. But other guys? Still bad? NO it's friends.?

That's not what he said he did... He said he met a girl, he is attracted to and spent time ALONE with her, behind his girlfriends back.

Now, if he met her and they hung out the 2 of them together, how is that bad? IF they keep it to friendship.

Did you not read my post? His girlfriend may always wonder in the back of her head, and it could strain the relationship he has with her...What's more important? having a good relationship, or having a FRIEND?

Now, if you were to REALLY feel something about that girl kal, then we can say that you don't feel much love for your girlfriend anymore. You CANNOT love 2 persons, remember that.

It is very possible to love 2 persons.... But why in the hell would you stay in a relationship with someone you would rather not spend time with?
He has to be true to himself.... That's why I said he should tell his girlfriend he is not ready to have a committed relationship, and see other people.



If my husband needs female advice and doesn't want to talk with me about it, then he better go to a counselor to get good advice. NOT discuss things with another woman.


What the hell is wrong you, validating that it is ok for a man to spend time with other women especially without the main squeeze knowing it.

Living with someone is a whole different ballgame than a highschool relationship.

And going out with friends, is different than spending alone time with a friend!

And I never fucking said anything about EVERY MAN...

Sounds to me like you Boys want your cake and eat it to.

And you want to someone to tell you it's ok..

[Stopper]

She's on CC... I wonder if she'll find this thread?

If you really are over the age of 15, then you're a dick.

My advice - grow a pair of balls and stop looking to other people to validate your actions.

[b.k. barunt]

He seems to need some serious validation. As to growing a pair, i don't think that's possible - i believe a transplant would be the only option there.


Honibaz

[freezie]

freezie=my hero

Yes yes, I know...


..What did I do?

[freezie]

Beastly, let me ask you a simple question, then tell me honnestly what you would do.


What if your man's mind wouldn't only be toward sex and rather he was interested in love?

Would you actually gime him a bit of FREEDOM?


But I have to agree, beeing commited does mean less freedom, but it's not slavery either.

But cheating on someone, commited or not, it's still a cheap-ass thing to do. Not only when married.

Love > sex. This is my whole point.