Dukasaur wrote:
I very much doubt if drunk driving is the sole, or even the largest, part of the 'harm to others' equation.
I never said, suggested, or implied it was the sole cause of ‘harm to others’ in the equation.
If you read my posts I speculated that it (i.e. drunk driving) was the largest component, and wanted to see if that could be broken out... the logic being that the drunk driving component may be moot in 20years with self-driving cars.
I rarely deal in absolutes, as I understand the world doesn’t generally conform to absolutes.
Dukasaur wrote:If I had to guess, I would say wife-beating is the biggest component. Like you, however, I haven't read the study.
That guess is a fine guess. You may be right. You may be wrong. It’s a guess.
Dukasaur wrote:Unlike you, I'm willing to keep an open mind.
Well that unfair.
I mean, neither of us have read the report so we’re both speculating. I’m defending my opinions/thoughts yes, but i’m Not doing so rudely or insulting those who are disagreeing with me. In fact I suggested earlier (to mookie) that perhaps my life experience is different, we see different things and that’s coloring our opinions.
You’ll see in your next sentence you bring up you own life experiences as evidence.
I’m hoping for an apology.
Dukasaur wrote:As a former cab driver, I've seen a staggering number of crimes committed by drunks, everything from aggravated assaults down to common vandalism. I don't see much of what happens after they reach their destination and the door closes, but the stories that have reached my ears are pretty alarming. And quite often, two hours after I drop a guy off, I'll happen to be driving down the same street and see the same guy on his front lawn with three cops sitting on his back. I'm not privy to the details of why, but I'm sure it's not because they're collecting unpaid parking tickets at four in the morning.
I don’t doubt ANY of what you’re saying.
What I suggest is that because of your job you are seeing a lot of the same type of ‘drinkers’.
Firstly... for every person who drinks and stays out till 2am at the bars... how many people drink socially and rarely go to bars, and when they do that don’t close the place?
I’m guessing there are a LOT more people who rarely or never see are bar but who do consume alcohol.
Or people who abuse it when they’re younger and outgrow it. I’ll take my own personal experience here as a guide. In my 20’s I regularly closed bars. In my 30’s I may have done it rarely. Now I never do it. If i’m In a bar at night it’s with a buddy watching a game. Last time I went ‘out on the town’... 3+ years ago for a Bachelor Party, where I was kinda playing the role of ‘elder stateman’ and babysitting my nephews.
... and then, even though I did likely ‘abuse’ alcohol in my 20’s. I never became violent because of alcohol. I wouldn’t beat my wife or kids, period, and no amount of alcohol could ‘make me’ do it.
So breaking it down you got;
*People who abuse alcohol and then cause harm /get violent.
*People who abuse alcohol and don’t cause harm or get violent.
*People who consume socially/regularly but don’t really ‘abuse’ it.
*People who drink moderately.
*People who really don’t drink at all.
That top group I think is pretty small compared to the next three groups.
We don’t need to worry about people who don’t consume at all, as that’s not really part of the conversation.
My premise therefore is that it’s really a small group who cause the hard.
My further premise / speculation is that these people are assholes to begin with; and though alcohol may contribute to bad actions in the moment it’s not really the ‘cause’... the ‘cause’ is that these people are assholes and violent and would find something else to blame for their actions if they couldn’t blame alcohol.
Now... one final thing... I’m NOT saying there’s NO harm. I’m also NOT saying that alcohol doesn’t contribute. I’m just speculating as to the underlying cause and trying to parse out the idea that the study is biased.
Now... I may actually go read the study.
