daddy1gringo wrote:It’s not surprising that the few girls/women who have posted have overwhelmingly talked about personality, and some of the guys just don’t get it. Despite the claims of many feminists, the differences (besides the obvious physical ones) between men and women are huge, and are in-born, not just taught by society.
Women are all about relationship. In general, (“You’re generalizing!” Yes, that’s why I said “in general.”) They look at sex as just part of the whole package. For us guys, sex is just sex. Relationship is an entirely different issue.
Once when I was sub teaching I made an extremely unofficial poll: Okay, girls, there’s this guy who you consider really sexy: body, face, smell, voice, clothes, whatever turns you on. You’re gonna have a chance to hook up with him after this party, but at the party you see him operate for the first time, and he’s a real jerk: conceited, inconsiderate, selfish, etc. Do you still want to go to bed w/ him? 100% said “no”
Then I asked the boys the converse about a girl. 100% said “Sure!”
Women (in general) will only go to bed with a guy that they want to wake up with. Guys will go to bed with whoever they can get away with going to bed with. They’ll think about marrying the one they want to wake up with.
Men (in general) only learn what a real relationship is like if they get involved with a good woman who teaches them. Then we discover there are benefits to it that the best “hooking up” can’t hold a candle to.
As for me, I echo the guy who said “I’m only thinking of one woman, and I love all the parts of her” body, mind and soul.
Yes, that all sounds great, and the women on here will love you for saying it.
Unfortunately, I do believe you are talking out of your arse/ass.
(Not because you are generalizing-we all have to generalize when we make an argument otherwise its gets ludicrously relativist).
The reason you're talking big BALLS though is this:
Why do more women want to go out with Bradd Pitt than Les Dawson (or your USA equivalent of an ugly but funny comedian).
Most women I've met are the same as men-they like good lookers.
They have, however, been socially conditioned to be more "coy" or "deep" about it because of the old "Tart/Stud" unfairness. (A bloke who sleeps around is a tud, a girls a tart etc).
I hear what you are saying-maybe relationships are more important to women than hey are to men.
But they want Hunky and Sexy and NSFW all the same
