use to drink about 6/7 nights a week. now Friday and Saturday nights and Sunday afternoon. after a long hard week in work(especially on 2-10) i want to come home and have few bottles of Rose wine with my wife.
if you don't drink now or when you get older that is fair enough and i understand you are not trying to talk down to us, but you must realise about certain situations. my wife's mum does not mind my kids and my mum will now and again(this Friday

). so we don't go out to often, so drinking at home is pretty much the best we can do regularly.