Dice, luck, wtf?

Ok I'm a noob and I realise this type of topic has probably been done to death, so please forgive me as I vent/ask some questions.
WHAT THE HELL IS UP WITH THE DICE? Today, I played two games on the classic map both against a single opponent. In the first game my opp went first. He had 2 territories in australia against my 2 territories in australia. He deployed there took it without a losing any troops. I had two territories in South America against his one and one neutral. I deployed there and attacked him lost ALL my troops. Finished the turn without spoils. He then used his bonus to wipe me out in South America. After that it was a massacre. At one stage I had a 4 troops against his one to break his bonus and I only broke even. He kept the bonus turned in his first three spoils and wiped me out in africa.
The second game has gone pretty much the same. Opp went first got South America. I had Dakar and he only had three troops on Sao Paolo I deployed and attacked and broke even 2-2. He kept the bonus I got no spoils. on his next turn He wiped me out in Africa and North America. So next round I have two territories in Australia against two neutrals deploy there take one territory lose no troops but then break even against the other. Get no spoils. He wipes me out in europe. I take Australia cant hold it cos he turns in his first 3 spoils along with bonus. Another massacre.
How can it be that in two separate games everything I did results in the worst possible outcome for me and everything my opponents do works out the best, or at least good, outcome? The probabilities on that must be huge.
I've read some of the forums here and people tend to say 'it's not luck you just have to play the odds'. But I do, I use an odds calculator. The odds have generally been in my favour but how can you play the odds if the worst possible outcome happens continously while you opponent has the best outcome?
WHAT THE HELL IS UP WITH THE DICE? Today, I played two games on the classic map both against a single opponent. In the first game my opp went first. He had 2 territories in australia against my 2 territories in australia. He deployed there took it without a losing any troops. I had two territories in South America against his one and one neutral. I deployed there and attacked him lost ALL my troops. Finished the turn without spoils. He then used his bonus to wipe me out in South America. After that it was a massacre. At one stage I had a 4 troops against his one to break his bonus and I only broke even. He kept the bonus turned in his first three spoils and wiped me out in africa.
The second game has gone pretty much the same. Opp went first got South America. I had Dakar and he only had three troops on Sao Paolo I deployed and attacked and broke even 2-2. He kept the bonus I got no spoils. on his next turn He wiped me out in Africa and North America. So next round I have two territories in Australia against two neutrals deploy there take one territory lose no troops but then break even against the other. Get no spoils. He wipes me out in europe. I take Australia cant hold it cos he turns in his first 3 spoils along with bonus. Another massacre.
How can it be that in two separate games everything I did results in the worst possible outcome for me and everything my opponents do works out the best, or at least good, outcome? The probabilities on that must be huge.
I've read some of the forums here and people tend to say 'it's not luck you just have to play the odds'. But I do, I use an odds calculator. The odds have generally been in my favour but how can you play the odds if the worst possible outcome happens continously while you opponent has the best outcome?