Never foed anyone or bothered to figure out what it means, never been foed either as far as I know.
Reason I'm asking - I started a bunch of private games and invited players on a mailing list that I stumbled onto. One of them, a player I enjoy playing against (call him player A), has contacted me and told me that he cannot join some of them because someone else who has him "foed" joined in front of him (call him player B).
Is this really how it works? Feels like there's got to be a better way. So now I am precluded from playing with Player A, at least in these games, even though they are private games that I started? If Player A had joined first, would Player B be able to join after him? I guess it would depend if they had mutually "foed" each other?
I guess I can always go and delete Player B from future mailings, even though I have no personal beef with him - but that doesn't allow Player A into the games I have up currently.