FabledIntegral wrote:I got to major status playing ONLY world 2.1 sequential flat rate/no cards, so I would consider myself quite decent at this game as well. I'm still in a few, now they are escalating however, and they do drop my score down (because I'm now above Major overall but still around Major level on world 2.1), but I still play them nonetheless. So I hope you weren't insinuating anything.
Be assured Fabled I certainly wasn't insinuating anything about you. It was a throwaway remark based on my own, probably inaccurate, belief that I should be more than a sergeant 1st class which is all I've ever achieved.

FabledIntegral wrote:It would have no effect on the long term agreed. However is that to say we should ignore the short term? People are always more concerned with the now than the later. And the fact that you would affect what is considered to be someone's "skill" by their "attitude," is laughable.
In a soccer game (and I'm guessing plenty of other sports too) you can be sent off for verbally abusing the referee ... not because you play badly. Nonetheless that verbal outburst of "attitude" is punished in a way that will remove your "skill" from the team and likely result in points lost. J P McEnroe - former tennis player - used to frequently lose points in a game because of his attitude to opponents and officials.
FabledIntegral wrote:Social grace? Whatever... I let off an "F bomb" in the forums frequently - forums are widely known as places of social banter. To much BS policing is done on this site.
And the point of this thread is that there is a line between banter and abuse. If I understand you correctly as to what an "F bomb" is, then I'd suggest that outside Flame Wars it's not considered banter but abuse.
In the end though I think I agree with you that this is not going to fly. No matter how well or consistently it was applied it would still make the site look like a pettily policed state. I believe that good and consistent use of the
existing tools for addressing those who deliberately or mistakenly cross the line between banter and abuse will maintain the nature and freedom of the site we know and love (or tolerate as some would have it

).